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Sex workers defend buyers
Veteran sex worker Susan Davis wants people to know that her “clients aren’t the bogeymen they are made out to be”.
“I love what I do,” Davis told the Georgia Straight in an interview at the Vancouver Public Library’s central branch. “I think the guys are the best; a lot of them are my friends. Some I’ve known for 18 years. How do you not become emotionally attached?”
Davis, who has been in the business for 23 years, insisted that stability and security for sex workers can only come with decriminalization of prostitution.
FIRST, a national coalition of feminists who support sex workers’ rights, hosted a lively forum on the subject at the library on November 23. Davis, who was on the panel, suggested that men who buy sex can actually help enhance the safety of those in the trade.
“I think that clients are our biggest resource in trying to combat exploitation, trafficking, and exploitation of youth within the sex industry,” declared Davis, a member of the West Coast Cooperative of Sex Industry Professionals, in the interview.
Another panellist, SFU sociology instructor and researcher Chris Atchison, echoed Davis’s sentiments. He revealed the results of an extensive three-year study—called “Johns’ Voice”—that documents the relationship between buyers and sellers of sex in Canada.
“I wanted to understand how these men engage in purchasing behaviour and what their relationships with sex-trade workers are about,” Atchison told the audience. “I wanted to know whether social and legal intervention such as the Swedish model is warranted by any empirical evidence.”
Atchison was referring to a Swedish law introduced in 1999 that criminalized johns’ purchasing of sexual services, but not the sale of those services by prostitutes. At the forum, organizers screened a 10-minute video that showed many Swedish sex workers are unhappy with the law. One sex worker featured in the video claimed that things have become much more dangerous for street workers, since they no longer have as much time to negotiate with their customers.
Atchison was critical of the Swedish law. The men he spoke to were seeking companionship and a connection with the sex workers they patronized, he said, adding that they wanted to engage in a safe and respectful relationship. He also reported that many customers saw the same sex worker for months or years, and that 79 percent said they wished to see prostitution decriminalized and regulated.
“I’m not here to present a picture of the sex buyer as some wonderful guy or say that they are all great, salt-of-the-earth people,” he said.
The “Johns’ Voice” project showed that between one and two percent of clients have been brutally violent toward a sex worker. Those are the people the law must address, according to Atchison.
Jody Salerno, a former sex worker and the director of women’s services for the B.C./Yukon Society of Transition Houses, told the audience that the men who paid her for sex were not criminals or violent. “They wanted to share my time and have consensual sex,” she said. “If men who pay for sex are criminalized, sex workers are unsafe.”
She emphasized that anyone—including sex workers—who commits acts of violence against women, children, youth, or men should be arrested and prosecuted. “When sex workers are victims of criminal acts, treat them with dignity and respect,” Salerno said.
Toronto author and investigative journalist Victor Malarek, a staunch critic of legalizing the sex trade, told the Straight in an interview earlier this year that about 90 percent of prostitutes worldwide are not doing this work by choice. “Rather than deal with the drugs, the mental-health issues, the physical-health issues, what led these women away from their reserves and put them on the streets, the only thing these bozos [proponents of legalization] can come up with is to keep them in something they never wanted in their lives in the first place,” Malarek said.



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I have ambivilant feelings about my expierence. But, very little of the negative comes from anything to do with the Johns themselves. It comes from the opinions from other people, the stigma placed on me for my choice, and other such socially negative views. That's what's bothered me, rarely the actual job.
I've met Sue, she's a great gal, and I totally support her journey and goals. While I may be retired there are still johns I remember fondly. Some of whom were women. Above comment, please chill, what happened to your friend was terrible, there's no denying that. Selling one's self is a choice, and you do it too. Any skill, trade, or whatever that you are paid for is 'selling yourself' I hope your friend heals, and I hope the wounds inflicted on her friends and family can heal in time.
Prostitution is driven strictly by laws of supply and demand. Simply put, women willing to have sex are in short supply. Theoretically, it would be possible to eliminate all prostitution and I think all violence against women, but collectively women don't want to do what that would take--increasing the supply of sex.
So we're left with a not very good option: paid sex work. Instead of blaming men for wanting what they're biologically programmed to want, or suggesting yet again that we need to find better professional opportunities for women, (note that women consistently outperform men academically) why not try to find ways of making sex more fun, pleasant and available for both sexes?
The sex industry and its libertarian shills have been promoting myths about sexual exploitation for centuries. And now they are getting very worried because a growing number of legislatures are recognizing what women (and men) have known for a long time, i.e. that prostitution doesn't correspond to that rosy view, that most of women and youths driven to it are being hurt bad and kept there by poverty, addiction, male psychological and physical violence, early sexual abuse, loss of self-confidence, and other unpleasant realities that somehow don't make ther way into puff pieces like this one.
May I recommend a new NFB film by Helene Choquette, Avenue Zero, that premiered at a Montreal documentary film festival two weeks ago? Its strongest scenes were shot in Vancouver with a survivor of Robert Pickton's brothel.
I predict that Ms. Davis and her well-heeled bosses and patrons won't like this film one bit... Truth and prostitution rarely go hand in hand.
When women are in an abusive relationship she will often overlook the abuse and talk about how great he is, how misunderstood he is how no one is able to see him like she does for she sees an "amazing" side of him others don't sounds to me like that is what is going on here.
Do these people really expect society to believe that we are to "trust" the men who took part in this survey?!
I hope society is smarter than that.
I know there is no simple answer, but certainly starting with the full legalization process, we could have our own redlight district, those that pimps, or importing women for this...those ones I am sure we can use the saved resources and nail them to the wall, along with the drug dealers that prey on the women and children.
We always want to see ourselves in a positive light, those in social sciences know that people judge themselves based upon what they are going to do, rather than upon what they have done.
It is disturbing that some men think that paying for sex is having a relationship...but then perhaps they have relationships with their car, boat, or leaf blower too. It is sad to see that some live such a shallow existence where their life is focused below their waist.
How many legalization critics are religiholics?
"Escorts" advertise all over the internet all over the world.
They're not going away and most enjoy the life style
it affords them.
I urge people like Ms. Davis who thinks the sex trade can be a safe and respectable industry to seriously reconsider. I'm not even talking about morals and whether it's "right" to sell your body. There is NO way the sex industry can ever be entirely safe for women, and there is certainly no way it could ever demonstrate any ounce of respect for the individuals involved.
In a paper on the legalized sex trade in Nevada, women felt they had to treat themselves as victims in order to increase their feelings of safety. In addition, prostitutes are subject to incredibly demeaning and invasive STI testing, which is routine. Of course, there is very little talk of screening johns. After all, it's all about the customer, isn't it?
Now, we all must as ourselves: is this an occupation that respects and empowers women as individuals? Will it ever be safe and healthy, physically and psychologically? Let's quit kidding ourselves.
Newsflash! SPs are actual flesh and blood people with emotions and everything... and so are the men who see them, friendships can develop under said conditions.
You must be pretty good looking not to understand loneliness, given your winning personality.
The state would not have to waste money on this aspect of the trade. Which means they can then focus their scarce resources on the issues you raise as well go after the others that make their livelyhood off the most vulnerable people you indicated.
There are no simple answers here, but certainly focussing their attention on the most vulnerable is both practical and likely to assist those who need it most.
It is countries like Canada, the US so called industrialized nations that we MUST stop this plague. Why do we think it is /or will be so hard to require men to learn to control their sexual urges. Most men I know support the law that criminalizes the buying. Men truly want to be known for more than their perceived lack of ability to control their orgasms.
And to this statement I call bullshit
"“I think that clients are our biggest resource in trying to combat exploitation, trafficking, and exploitation of youth within the sex industry,”
How many men use trafficked women right now in "legal" brothels in Europe? It is men who want to buy children that will find the children for sale, do you really think they will report themselves?
Do you think an intimidated women who is brainwashed will tell the man raping her she is trafficked?
Do you think johns looking to pay to torture an unwilling victim will report he thinks she is there against here will.
This argument is getting more and more unbelievable. It's interesting to watch how excited these people are over this report as if it proves something, I think for the average person they can see straight through it and it truly nauseates the masses.
Can we believe those who are to 'self disclose' if they would ever hurt a prostitute?
Shouldn't we be looking at other things to find if men would harm prostitutes like police reports, hospital reports. Talk to front line workers. .
Maybe we should also ask the wives and children of these john's if they minded the family money being spent on a prostitute,we should ask the partners and families of these men what they think.. Or don't they have a say as well?
If prostitution was banned, do you think they will disappear like a little puff of smoke?
One, the image is of a woman in a very skimpy outfit standing on the street fishing for a taker. The other, you'd never know it. Both are in the same industry.
The right and self righteous likes to broadly paint the entire industry with the unwholesome image of the street walker with all the worst traits. Yet the news reported Denver prostitutes looked most forward to the republican convention not too long ago. So much for politicians from the right spouting family values.
It's time to address the underlying causes of violence. Snuffing out the outlets that get abused by such individuals will only move it elsewhere.
Some people would say he should do neither but is it possible to just turn off your sex drive for the rest of your life and be happy? NO. Would any of us be truly happy if we had to masturbate for the rest of our lives? NO.
The crime isn't prostitution, it's how we go about it. The women on the streets are the ones being abused and I think that if they had a safe and clean place to do it, that these crimes would be less frequent and severe. We can't change the fact that people need sex and quite frankly they should be able to get it if they want it.
Actually, this does not "seem" like Atchison forgot anything. This is an article, do you really expect all his research to include everything? An article sums up major points. Perhaps if you read more than an article and read other research, including his own, you would be better educated.
I would also be interested in hearing more from actual prostitutes to learn what their experiences with the law and with Johns has been. One thing that people tend to forget is that not all sex workers are street walkers. Of all sex workers, street walkers tend to work in the most dangerous and exploitative conditions, and it can be challenging for them to stay safe since they are often targetted by sexual predators.
However, a lesbian friend of mine used to organize private erotic shows for members of the lesbian community in Vancouver. She didn't sell sex, was never abused, made great money and loved the creative aspects of her job. Is ALL sex work inherently degrading and exploitative? I don't think so.
According to the demonisers, the suppliers are all strung out crackheads and the customers are all Robert Picktons.
So who, pray tell, is going to take that strung-out crackhead under their wing and provide such people with effective rehabilitation and decent accommodation and meals. These people have seen the welfare system and have found it inadequate for their needs.
Such people thankfully are rare, but we should never forget that the current legal climate is a perfect habitat for them.
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