Whether you're an old-fashioned kinda gal or a modern woman,
whether you have a grand fairy-tale wedding or a secret Vegas
elopement, on that night you'll most likely want to look and feel
like the most beautiful woman in the world. This is supposed to
be the passionate night of smouldering consummation.
A trousseau is a collection of fancy finery accumulated
especially for a wedding night and honeymoon. It comes from the
French word trousse, meaning "bundle", and that's pretty much
what it was: a bundle of stuff the new bride took with her to her
new home. In Victorian times the trousseau became more elaborate
and the size of a woman's bridal bling would depend on her
family's wealth and position. It would usually consist of
negligées, lingerie, jewellery, and lovely little handmade
delicates monogrammed with the bride's initials. If you came from
money, you'd have dresses and gowns for all events and occasions,
as well as bed linens and other such goodies for your new home.
Basically, it was supposed to be everything you needed to go off
into the wide world and start your new life as a proper wife.
These days, for most, a trousseau is mainly the sexy stuff you
wear on your wedding night and throughout your honeymoon, as well
as whatever else you might want to bring along for that first
month of marital bliss.
One very traditional trousseau item is still as hot as ever,
though, and that is the corset. Historical yet timeless, dainty
yet strong, corsets are extremely feminine and a little bit
naughty.
Local corsetière Melanie Talkington of Vancouver's Lace
Embrace Atelier (www.laceembrace.com/) says corsets are popular
among brides to wear under their wedding dresses because they
"offer bust support and give waist shaping. They are also sexy
lingerie for the wedding night."
Other fancy frilly pieces that brides are loving are the
delicately deadly stretch-lace panties with adjustable lace-up
detail in the back. "The bride can lace it with a blue satin
ribbon for her cheeky 'something blue'," says Talkington. Pair
those with a matching lace camisole with a flattering and
vintage-inspired wide V-neck and short capped sleeves under a
corset for a fetching look.
The corsets, available by custom order or in four different
in-stock styles, look great worn with stockings and a pair of
silk-ribbon leg garters-one for the groom to throw and the other
for the bride as a keepsake. "Our garters are reproduced from
vintage favourites and made from ribbons or lace and work very
well when worn alone or over the corset for a Moulin Rouge look,"
adds Talkington.
It's important to get the right size: four inches smaller than
your natural waist to give enough curvy waist definition. If you
naturally have a 32-inch waist, you'll get a 28-inch corset.
There is also a knack for putting it on yourself, as well as
tightening and tying it without suffocating yourself. "When we do
corset fittings, we show the bride how to lace herself in so that
she feels comfortable and supported. The corsets also come with
an information package full of tips for pleasurable
corset-wearing." It's not that tricky, just take your time and
don't rush. When worn correctly, a corset not only gives you
great posture, but can be surprisingly comfy and look and feel
totally smokin' hot. Go figure.