posted Monday, December 9, 2013 at 8:41pm
I have always had problems committing so I have been sticking to casual pseudo relationships. I like sex and going out with hot girls but I don't really like all the other stuff in relationships. I don't want to hurt anyone so I usually start being distant until I get dumped. This way the girls aren't emotionally hurt. The problem is that I am with a girl now that I really like. Is it possible to go from casual to real? I mean I am 30 now and she's 22 and I just feel like I want to take the next step.