i farted on the skytrain around 8:17 am nearly 4 months ago, and i still feel awful about it everytime i get on a packed train.

i farted on the skytrain around 8:17 am nearly 4 months ago, and i still feel awful about it everytime i get on a packed train. « less

Two of my best friends (who don't know each other) have suddenly stopped speaking to me. I have absolutely no idea what I have done, or why they are acting this way. I've initiated contact with them and asked what is wrong, but they simply ignore me. I have other close friends who have assured » more

Two of my best friends (who don't know each other) have suddenly stopped speaking to me. I have absolutely no idea what I have done, or why they are acting this way. I've initiated contact with them and asked what is wrong, but they simply ignore me. I have other close friends who have assured me that I haven't done anything wrong, and that they are acting ridiculous. However, I can't help but think that I am the repelling factor in this equation: What could I possibly be doing to make my best friends want to isolate me? I don't know who to talk to or what to do. Any advice? « less

I see it out in the street and even at work. Vancouver is a very cold place. When two people walk down the street and their paths cross they look away at the last moment to avoid eye contact. As if smiling at someone will be the end of the world. » more

I see it out in the street and even at work. Vancouver is a very cold place. When two people walk down the street and their paths cross they look away at the last moment to avoid eye contact. As if smiling at someone will be the end of the world. The worlds a very cold place but if people just said hello to one another I think the world would be a better place. « less

its nice to have interests, but the girls i meet in Vancouver seem to do hobbies all wrong. They act like they are master bakers, or famous chefs or skilled jewelers etc and i feel like i have to be supportive of their crappy skills and even crappier creations.

its nice to have interests, but the girls i meet in Vancouver seem to do hobbies all wrong. They act like they are master bakers, or famous chefs or skilled jewelers etc and i feel like i have to be supportive of their crappy skills and even crappier creations. « less

If you can have a dog, you can also pick up your dog's shit! It is gross to see dog crap all over side walk, have some manners and do the right thing. Because if I ever see someone leave their dog's crap on my lawn again, I will fine out where they live and return the crap on their lawn.

If you can have a dog, you can also pick up your dog's shit! It is gross to see dog crap all over side walk, have some manners and do the right thing. Because if I ever see someone leave their dog's crap on my lawn again, I will fine out where they live and return the crap on their lawn. « less

I'm taking SSRIs for depression. For the past year I've had a very difficult time reaching climax and ejaculating/orgasming during sex or masturbation. This hasn't bothered my very much: it means I can last as long as my partner needs. But I'm afraid if I ever go off them I will disappoint. I'm not sure if that's the reason I stay on them now.

I'm taking SSRIs for depression. For the past year I've had a very difficult time reaching climax and ejaculating/orgasming during sex or masturbation. This hasn't bothered my very much: it means I can last as long as my partner needs. But I'm afraid if I ever go off them I will disappoint. I'm not sure if that's the reason I stay on them now. « less

I'm not at all promiscuous. I lost my virginity last summer to a guy I met in a Montreal hostel. We had hung out for a week and on his last night I initiated sex. He is 30, ten years older than I am. I don't feel like I made a bad decision, but I » more

I'm not at all promiscuous. I lost my virginity last summer to a guy I met in a Montreal hostel. We had hung out for a week and on his last night I initiated sex. He is 30, ten years older than I am. I don't feel like I made a bad decision, but I feel as though my friends who I have told are judging me like I am a whore. Are they right? « less

Women can ejaculate. I am a lucky boy as I've experienced it firsthand. I love it and it inspires me to find new ways to bring women to the heights of ecstasy. That is all.

Women can ejaculate. I am a lucky boy as I've experienced it firsthand. I love it and it inspires me to find new ways to bring women to the heights of ecstasy. That is all. « less

People these days are commitment challenged. As soon as the first argument pops up it's used a "red flag" excuse to get-out of continuing to date someone. Or a little spat is blown way out of proportion as a justification to call it quits. Several of my male friends have admitted to "trying" to » more

People these days are commitment challenged. As soon as the first argument pops up it's used a "red flag" excuse to get-out of continuing to date someone. Or a little spat is blown way out of proportion as a justification to call it quits. Several of my male friends have admitted to "trying" to make a long-term relationship work so that they can have a sexual connection with a girl. And then, admitted to me that they didn't actually want something serious in the first place but went through all the motions of acting like they did and in some cases, they even caused arguments so that they would get dumped. That way, they wouldn't have to do the actual breaking-up and see the pain in her eyes. I guess this makes the guy feel more secure that he can say that he wasn't the one who "closed the door", or simply to not look like the asshole. This is way more common phenomenon then people like to admit. I think who ever uses this approach is an insecure, selfish coward. I even told my guy friends this. But it's obviously working enough that people keep doing it to each other. A major downside to acting that way during the "dating phase" is that you might actually sabotage something really spectacular with someone awesome...and in the end have a lot of time time go by where you are looking like and feeling like a dick when you could be having the time of your life. What goes around, comes around... « less

I know you're all watching me and everything that I post on here, and on other pages. Don't think I'm fuckin stupid.

I know you're all watching me and everything that I post on here, and on other pages. Don't think I'm fuckin stupid. « less

The prospect of aging terrifies me. I think I would rather die young than live long enough to experience the decay of my mind and body.

The prospect of aging terrifies me. I think I would rather die young than live long enough to experience the decay of my mind and body. « less

I am single - not because I am elitist or entitled. I am single because it is hard to meet people in a city where more often than not, people are assuming and cold. Men who feel inferior because they don't drive a BMW or make a certain figure will assume that all women are » more

I am single - not because I am elitist or entitled. I am single because it is hard to meet people in a city where more often than not, people are assuming and cold. Men who feel inferior because they don't drive a BMW or make a certain figure will assume that all women are money-hungry, or they won't approach women because of their own feelings of inadequacy. Gentlemen, I assure you, not all women care about what kind of car you have, or whether or not you even have a car. Women, don't be so unapproachable. If a man chats you up in a cafe or on public transit, it doesn't necessarily mean he wants to sleep with you. Maybe he just has a story he wants to share. Everyone has their heads so far up their asses it has become impossible for people to make any sort of connection. Everyone in this city needs to lighten up and smile and be more approachable. Everything feels so formulaic and forced. Say hi to a stranger the next time you feel a connection or feel like you need to say something to them, or even better - maintain eye contact for more than 3 seconds. I haven't been single in a long time, but now that I am and now that I've reentered the dating scene, I realize how pathetic and futile it is in this city. « less

I'll confess to wanting to post an "I saw you" for a girl I met at Expo 86 but never learnt her name. Probably totally futile and I dont have a clue what I'd do if she responded! Still it makes more sense and would be more real than some of the other confessions here!

I'll confess to wanting to post an "I saw you" for a girl I met at Expo 86 but never learnt her name. Probably totally futile and I dont have a clue what I'd do if she responded! Still it makes more sense and would be more real than some of the other confessions here! « less

It's become concerning to me the # of empty stores and for lease signs showing up in busy areas such as Robson, Granville, EastVan, and Broadway. Anyone out there have suggestions to why this is? HST? Economy? ....

It's become concerning to me the # of empty stores and for lease signs showing up in busy areas such as Robson, Granville, EastVan, and Broadway. Anyone out there have suggestions to why this is? HST? Economy? .... « less

It started because of a simple conversation about Pok

It started because of a simple conversation about Pok « less

Do I know I'm crazy if I do am I sane?

Do I know I'm crazy if I do am I sane? « less

Being a well-edumicated (grade 4 grad!) pseudo-intellectual, I have figured out why my male brain is empty most of the time. I recently asked a woman I know: "When you ask a guy what he's thinking, and he says 'nothing', do you believe him?" She said no. I advised her that she should. From an » more

Being a well-edumicated (grade 4 grad!) pseudo-intellectual, I have figured out why my male brain is empty most of the time. I recently asked a woman I know: "When you ask a guy what he's thinking, and he says 'nothing', do you believe him?" She said no. I advised her that she should. From an evolutionary perspective, it did not pay for men to think. When I am out hunting for food, if I am busy thinking, I will be distracted by my thoughts. If I'm lost in reverie, I might not notice my quarry, or make too much absent-minded noise and scare it off. Since I have started focusing more on 'not thinking', I am much more successful in killing the squirrels, poodles and racoons around the neighbourhood. I have also stopped talking, to make less noise while I am hunting. My future girlfriend/wife/mistress will definitely benefit from my thoughtlessness and brooding silences. Not only will I NOT talk about my feelings (ever), I won't talk much, period. She will then be able to blab on and on to her heart's content, without me thoughtfully interrupting her. I will follow the John Grey School of nodding and grunting in agreement at all times. She will be most pleased that I don't hog the conversation. I will not make any suggestions or give advice, as women hate this. Yes, I did read: Men are from beyond Hope, Girls are From Surrey. She will be totally happy as she will have a guy who is the 'strong, silent type'. All women not-so-secretly want this kind of man. She will be able to show me off to her girlfriends and proudly announce: "Yes, he's very good looking, but more importantly, he's really stupid, and I can totally control him. Totally." Her girlfriends will be very jealous of her. Thanks for reading Happy Dumb Guy « less

I'm weary of men pursuing me for the idea of me. Grasping at romance before establishing a connection on a friendship level. I'm not going to save you you from the mundane if that's where your mind has fallen. Good luck in your pursuit in reducing the both of us into your picture frame. You'll » more

I'm weary of men pursuing me for the idea of me. Grasping at romance before establishing a connection on a friendship level. I'm not going to save you you from the mundane if that's where your mind has fallen. Good luck in your pursuit in reducing the both of us into your picture frame. You'll find we'll both spill out the sides. Maybe we'll meet in the puddle beside? « less

Just the other day, I was watching a report on the evening news that posed the question, "Just why is it the dating scene in Vancouver is considered by singles to be awful?" For me, the posting below (Single?) sums it up. The women of Vancouver are entitled. Elitist. Don't look like David Beckham? Aren't » more

Just the other day, I was watching a report on the evening news that posed the question, "Just why is it the dating scene in Vancouver is considered by singles to be awful?" For me, the posting below (Single?) sums it up. The women of Vancouver are entitled. Elitist. Don't look like David Beckham? Aren't a doctor? Don't own your own house in Kits or drive a Mercedes? That sucks. And here's the thing, if I met this woman in person would I deem her, "F#$%ing Amazing?" Which for me would mean, having stunning looks combined with a winning personality? (less than what she's hoping for) The odds aren't with her (not that her friends and family would tell her that). That said, the more physically attractive the girl, the more pronounced her "bitch shield" (not that she needs one - the men here never chat up attractive strangers). But ultimately, I think the reason dating here sucks is due to a perfect storm of variables: high quality of living (this ain't Haiti), ever-widening income gap and consistently miserable weather. These things make Vancouverites insular, cold (both literally and figuratively), cliquey and judgmental. « less

Why do girls take pictures of themselves in a bathroom stall wearing next to thing??! Why don't they go somewhere nicer?

Why do girls take pictures of themselves in a bathroom stall wearing next to thing??! Why don't they go somewhere nicer? « less

Yes, I am single!! And you'll have to be pretty F#$%ing Amazing to change that!

Yes, I am single!! And you'll have to be pretty F#$%ing Amazing to change that! « less

I have feelings of guilt for leaving a toxic relationship with my abusive ex, we were together for years, and now I feel guilty for being in love with the man in my life now. I feel sad for my ex, but he will never change. I feel sorry for him, he is » more

I have feelings of guilt for leaving a toxic relationship with my abusive ex, we were together for years, and now I feel guilty for being in love with the man in my life now. I feel sad for my ex, but he will never change. I feel sorry for him, he is so angry and bitter. I want to move past these feelings but can't seem to. Will I ever be free of these feelings? « less

I really have a craving for potato chips, but my head hurts and I am too lazy to go buy some. Damn..... I need potato chips!!! That is my fucking confession.

I really have a craving for potato chips, but my head hurts and I am too lazy to go buy some. Damn..... I need potato chips!!! That is my fucking confession. « less

So, my relationship with my ex gf ended over two years ago, however, she still plays in my mind and fantasies. I love my new gf- which I've been with for awhile- but I still think about my ex all the time to the point where I fantasize about being with her when I'm with » more

So, my relationship with my ex gf ended over two years ago, however, she still plays in my mind and fantasies. I love my new gf- which I've been with for awhile- but I still think about my ex all the time to the point where I fantasize about being with her when I'm with my present gf. I think if she contacted me and said she'd made a mistake, I would take her back. I feel like a complete dick in feeling this way and it makes me feel guilty, but I must confess: I still want her. « less

I see so many rednecks driving around this city with big pickup trucks. but you know what they say about them.. great big trucks, great big dogs, great big guns.... tiny little trailer park homes, tiny little minds, tiny little...

I see so many rednecks driving around this city with big pickup trucks. but you know what they say about them.. great big trucks, great big dogs, great big guns.... tiny little trailer park homes, tiny little minds, tiny little... « less