it's so funny and interesting how quickly attraction can change. tonight, i ran into someone who i swear i was in complete love with a year ago - a partner who was unkind to me but i was still infatuated with. it took me a long time to heal from the unhealthy relationship, but i am now in a better place and surrounded by people that love me. and when i saw him, i can confidently say that i felt nothing! i am over him, and i have moved on! i guess this confession is just to say that time (plus a little dose of self-love) does indeed heal. a year ago, my world felt like it had collapsed because of one person's tremendous negative effect on me. if i can get through this, i'm just saying to the rest of you that you can too! your world may feel like it's ending, but remember that this too shall pass. just sending some love out to all of the broken hearts and spirits out there. i have been there. it hurts like fuck, but you will get through it. i am sure of it.