i had a relationship over the past summer / early fall. we broke up, there were lots of good reasons why we couldn't be together. now we are friends, see each other fairly often as friends, and i find i've still got feelings. some of the reasons we couldn't be together have changed, but some remain. should i risk jeopardizing the friendship by telling this person how i feel? should i just be grateful and happy to have a good friend and leave it at that?