posted Tuesday, January 8, 2013 at 10:57am
My boyfriend and I are not having sex with each other until we get married. At first I thought this was a really stupid idea because I always have sex with my boyfriends and I love sex. I almost dumped him for the suggestion. I also felt really weird and abnormal because everyone ALWAYS has sex before they get married, so I felt like some sort of freak (I still haven't told any friends) But as time went on, I actually respect him and us more. My love has grown for him considerably by holding out. An added bonus is I don't have to worry about getting pregnant and all of the responsibilities that go along with it. People don't really think about the consequences of sex anymore, but you should. It has been two years of holding out and I can honestly say that it is not a big deal to NOT have sex. People can get creative with their sexuality and still be satisfied, and still hold out. We are getting married in a few months and -oh my god- we are going to have the best time of our lives in bed because we waited!!!!