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posted Monday, January 14, 2013 at 11:02am
I constantly feel that people love it when I screw up. When I do something wrong, they are all quick to jump on it and constantly point it out, and I feel this need to play a bad guy, which I hate, because I don't want to be the bad guy. And when others do something wrong, either people don't notice it, or encourage it.
Why does it seem that everything I do is wrong, and I am the only person who can do wrong?
I just want to go home and leave this place.
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Jan 14, 2013 at 12:24 pm
Are you what other people might perceive as a 'perfect person'? (Smart, over-achiever, attractive, all that good stuff?) That might be why they love it when you mess up - it makes you seem more human and makes them feel that they're on a more level playing field with you.
I don't think I'm perfect, but I have other women in my life who seem to get very interested when it looks like life is throwing me a curveball. At other times, one of them sounds very disappointed when I tell her I'm happy and life is good. It always says more about them than it does about me.
I don't think I'm perfect, but I have other women in my life who seem to get very interested when it looks like life is throwing me a curveball. At other times, one of them sounds very disappointed when I tell her I'm happy and life is good. It always says more about them than it does about me.
Jan 14, 2013 at 2:24 pm
I'm agreeing with Yep. I'm male and do better than average at a good number of things I try - and am very open when I know I'll suck at something.
I never ever boast of my achievements or what I do and I certainly do not laud it over people. However, many people I know and some I even call friends delight in making big of my mistakes (and gawd knows I make them). As Yep says its that level playing field thing and perhaps for some, Envy.
I never ever boast of my achievements or what I do and I certainly do not laud it over people. However, many people I know and some I even call friends delight in making big of my mistakes (and gawd knows I make them). As Yep says its that level playing field thing and perhaps for some, Envy.
Jan 14, 2013 at 9:53 pm
I agree. I have people who actually try and stir up shit. Like when you are in bar having fun and dancing and have a few drinks and being silly. You know, the ones who sit and have a few drinks and desperately try to act they aren't affected by the alcohol and judge others. Hello Bitches!
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