posted Wednesday, December 17, 2014 at 10:55pm
A lot of men in this city need to learn how to dress at a basic level. I have seen men wear shirts with mustard and ketchup stains and sports sneakers to a lunch date. I spend time to look good I expect the same from you. You don't have to wear expensive clothes but at least an ironed shirt to a date and clean dress shoes and trousers. No jeans. Men in this city blame us for all their dating troubles. I get asked out at least 3 times a week and half the time it starts with "Yo Baby" with them not even looking in my eyes but at my body. I am not a piece of meat. I go out with men who look me in the eyes and seem genuine and have similar interests to me. That is dating at the most basic level. Of course there has to be some kind of physical attraction but that's not the most important thing. Men keep saying women are hard to approach. Maybe its because we have our guard up after being harassed all our lives by men. So stop blaming us because the blame goes both ways.