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posted Tuesday, January 22, 2013 at 10:09pm
Yes I am single. I have been single for a long time. My beautiful face, my tall sexy figure, my education and different talents doesn't fit together into the picture of me being single, but I am who I am. I choose to be single after figuring out that each and every ex-boyfriend in this city cheated on me. Not because I am dumb but because my ex-es are rotten guys. So, the story about ex-boyfriends is a simple story: You guys sucks, and I am happy being without you all!
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Jan 23, 2013 at 7:57 am
My gf is dating someone else. Guess I'll join you in the single life. The freedom is nice, but rent will go up...
Jan 23, 2013 at 12:24 pm
I've never cheated in my life and I would never. Not all guys suck.
Jan 23, 2013 at 1:30 pm
Sounds like your full of yourself. Big turn off.
Jan 23, 2013 at 2:03 pm
I advocate going out with non-conventionally-attractive men. I think if you date within your beauty range, and you're beautiful, of course you are going to meet a considerable percentage of handsome, experienced, jaded playas.
You should either embrace dating dweebs or learn to handle the fact of male promiscuity - what you call 'cheating' is a primal drive in men (and Gods - consider the paramours of Zeus) that can be sublimated to varying degrees of success. It goes away around age 80. Until then, be realistic.
You should either embrace dating dweebs or learn to handle the fact of male promiscuity - what you call 'cheating' is a primal drive in men (and Gods - consider the paramours of Zeus) that can be sublimated to varying degrees of success. It goes away around age 80. Until then, be realistic.
Jan 23, 2013 at 2:31 pm
Like Steven - I don't cheat and never have. Even though I have a good female friend with whom a small part of me would love to cheat with - but the rest of me manages to slap that part around and keep it in submission....
Jan 23, 2013 at 3:32 pm
studies show women and men cheat in equal proportions. also many women are attracted to bad guys who hurt them, but when they find a good man they experience him as boring or unattractive.
Jan 23, 2013 at 5:37 pm
It should be no surprise. Vancouver is the city of promiscuous men and woman. Plenty of websites which allow for discreet hookups.
Jan 23, 2013 at 5:56 pm
with cul de sac. There's one common denominator here: it's you.
I suspect you are making bad choices in men, plain and simple. I was married and engaged, and neither of those guys ever cheated on me - I know it.
Instead of writing off men altogether, perhaps take some time to assess what you've been looking for in men and whether you might benefit from making different choices.
Counselling might help, too - just for insight.
I suspect you are making bad choices in men, plain and simple. I was married and engaged, and neither of those guys ever cheated on me - I know it.
Instead of writing off men altogether, perhaps take some time to assess what you've been looking for in men and whether you might benefit from making different choices.
Counselling might help, too - just for insight.
Jan 23, 2013 at 6:27 pm
At least you don't have to contend with knowing that about half the available women under 40 in Vancouver are using "seekingarrangements.com" to make a little handbag money on the side. Gross.
That's being a man in this city...
That's being a man in this city...
Jan 23, 2013 at 6:35 pm
I have a similar attitude towards women, but I find they love to cheat emotionally. Every woman I've been with has some emotional attachment to some other male they like to hang-out with. Staying single is fine; I do the same. You'll meet someone decent one day; not all men cheat.
Jan 24, 2013 at 4:39 am
Good for you that your man didn't cheat on you! But please don't start with the assumption that "I'm writing off all men". Two words: NO TRUE! Thanks for another assumption that I need a counselling. I guess you know me more then I know myself. Cool!
Jan 24, 2013 at 5:03 am
This woman is not attracted in any shape or form to the bad guys. You got it wrong! And I love good guys! It happened that my ex-es were mature people (by age) but emotionally immature or not ready to be faithful in a relationship. Just facts. Nothing else.
Jan 24, 2013 at 5:33 am
So sorry that my parents are beautiful people and they have a beautiful daughter! And me doing my doctorat degree as you call it "I'm full of myself". You failed!
Jan 24, 2013 at 12:49 pm
Paging Doctor Rat! Paging Doctor Rat!
Jan 24, 2013 at 6:23 pm
I'm in my 30's. I've dated a fair amount of women and never cheated on any of them. I'm still friends with a lot of the women I've dated. On a few occasions, I've felt discouraged about some of the relationships that didn't go so well, and then avoided dating for awhile. There were few times I had girls proposition me while I was in a relationship. I don't think I'd ever "cheat".
Maybe you just need some time to chill out. From my experience the longer you meditate on that sort of thing the more broke your hart feels.
Maybe you just need some time to chill out. From my experience the longer you meditate on that sort of thing the more broke your hart feels.
Jan 24, 2013 at 9:58 pm
Ok, you have defintly found a pattern here (all your boyfriends were cheaters) so look into yourself, you keep picking the wrong guys. why? you know the saying"insanity is doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result".
Jan 24, 2013 at 11:38 pm
I hate it when people use that def. of insanity. We live in a probabilistic world, different outcomes happen all the time from the same starting conditions. I'm being pedantic, and I get the point, but I had to say.
Jan 25, 2013 at 2:14 am
OP, even the way you respond to other people's advice, opinions and criticisms indicates that you're just not on the same page as the rest of us. I'm sorry that you've had a run of bad luck with relationships, but you need some time to seriously take a good look at yourself and how you relate to others. Step one is to identify you have problems and to be self-critical about them, and it seems like you haven't even reached that stage yet.
Don't be afraid to do it, because we all have to. Actually, do be afraid, but embrace that feeling rather than continue to lie to yourself. In the end you only continue to hurt yourself by trying to avoid being hurt.
Don't be afraid to do it, because we all have to. Actually, do be afraid, but embrace that feeling rather than continue to lie to yourself. In the end you only continue to hurt yourself by trying to avoid being hurt.
Jan 26, 2013 at 3:40 pm
How can you be pursuing a doctorate with such deficient grammar and vocabulary? Sorry you are upset.
Jan 29, 2013 at 11:40 pm
I cheated once when I was 15; learnt my lesson (it hurts the other person *a lot*) and never done it again.
On the contrary, every other relationship I've had since has ended because the gf cheated on me. (somehow I must be paying off the bad karma or something)
So yeah, cheaters of all genders suck and make their gender look bad but you and I know that now all people are cheaters so what gives? how come all the cheaters come to you? (or me?)
I tell you my theory: because we let them.
Perhaps we are so afraid of 'not being good enough' that we try to excel academically (who is not to like that?), or try to achieve other prized goals (a nice car, a nice job, a nice physique) to attract others. We want to be accepted and loved and our achievements are a bit of a security blanket (not that there is anything wrong with it).
However, when we find someone, we allows certain things to play in the relationship maybe cause we are afraid to lose that someone. This is a ticket (for some) to see how much they can get away with.
The solution? I wish I knew :) but start with being firm with what your values are and start being fair to yourself first and others second
Good luck!
On the contrary, every other relationship I've had since has ended because the gf cheated on me. (somehow I must be paying off the bad karma or something)
So yeah, cheaters of all genders suck and make their gender look bad but you and I know that now all people are cheaters so what gives? how come all the cheaters come to you? (or me?)
I tell you my theory: because we let them.
Perhaps we are so afraid of 'not being good enough' that we try to excel academically (who is not to like that?), or try to achieve other prized goals (a nice car, a nice job, a nice physique) to attract others. We want to be accepted and loved and our achievements are a bit of a security blanket (not that there is anything wrong with it).
However, when we find someone, we allows certain things to play in the relationship maybe cause we are afraid to lose that someone. This is a ticket (for some) to see how much they can get away with.
The solution? I wish I knew :) but start with being firm with what your values are and start being fair to yourself first and others second
Good luck!
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