Just Can't Do It

posted July 17th, 2013 at 12:02 PM

After being cheated on by my ex, with someone so utterly unpalatable that it's difficult to let it go. Oddly as chance had it I met someone whom I had been having amazing conversations with, shared a multitude of passions and interests with, the compatibility on paper would have gone down in history... until I met them. the kicker... Turned out to be a long haired version of the troll my ex is so smitten for. The uncanny likeness doesnt end in looks alone, I have actually (unintentionally) found an exact duplicate of this person. A list of examples undeniable: THEY BOTH: - are EXTREMELY unattractive, but think they are god's gift - are substance abusing degenerates - work earning under what would be acceptable when GAINFULLY employed. - are paranoid, thinking that there is always someone against them - are musically inclined - come from small town mentality and education - have no drive or ambitions for the future - feel the need to put others down in order to feel better, and do frequently - are in the 30-35 age bracket, but have nothing of any value to show aside from a newer model of a very unexceptional car. - are jealous - U-haulers - have ugly dogs - have no fashion sense - put their own needs/wants before anyone else's - are selfish in bed - are proud of their unacceptable ways - don't have a physique to write home about the list could go on I am sure. Out of curiosity I entertained the idea for a week.. but have come to my title conclusion.. and my GS confession..I Just Can't Do It! If the person were always kind If they were adored by all of my friends If they brought nothing but love, laughter and positive things to my life or even if they were simply able to put others before themselves, MAYBE I could do it. but since they are none of these things, ... If I am going to be with someone who fell from The Ugly Tree and hit every branch on the way down, ... They sure as HELL better be one amazing person. Which leaves me with the conclusion that my ex truly is f**kin nuts. You are a bigger person than me, Baby.. Cuz I Just Can't Do It.

12 Comments

truthful fact

Jul 17, 2013 at 1:54pm

People don't cheat or have sex with others because of looks. There's more to sexuality then that. It's far more complex. Thank goodness- or sex would just be reserved for a very select few. It's alllll subjective.

On blast

Jul 17, 2013 at 2:03pm

You sound like the one who fell from the ugly tree. No one wants to read your misplaced poison under the confessions page. Gross. Grow up.

Dik

Jul 17, 2013 at 2:19pm

You women always go for the same douche bags over and over again. I hear the same repetitive story from different girls over and over again. There is no helping you. You get what you deserve.

ace

Jul 17, 2013 at 3:57pm

what you put out, you getting
back!!

Maybe just maybe

Jul 17, 2013 at 9:37pm

She left you because he wasn't quite as ugly or arrogant as you appear to be. Sounds to me like he did your ex a favor and you're doing yours a favor.

666

Jul 18, 2013 at 12:35am

Beauty is skin deep...but ugly goes right down to the bone. I find you ugly.

Reflections

Jul 18, 2013 at 5:47am

Our judgment on others is a reflection of how we see ourselves. You may sit there in your pain thinking it is they that are the problem, but I would accurately assess, it is you. These people you insult probably hold more truth, beauty and love than someone as your self who believes they are better. A quote from Christ, "do not judge, for in the same way you judge others, you will be judged". -Matthew 7:1-2. Sometimes the most righteous souls come from character that is refined through hardship and struggle, and who are we to think we have the mind of God when our heart is still ugly.

NotUgly

Jul 18, 2013 at 10:31pm

i find it hard to believe that i am the only one who is actually reading this confession correctly.
Did everyone here simply read that the op is putting down 2 ugly people, and then skim over the rest??
What I read was, that these two people are unkind to others, perhaps even calling other people ugly with the delusion that they are not
,they are both substance abusers, are selfish and self centred, and form the gist of it, sound like complete dead-beats.
The fact that they are ugly is irrelevant if their personalities are so ugly to begin with.
what i think is going on here, is that all the people that have made these ignorant and self righteous comments... are only offended because THEY are ugly
just sayin

Agree with Dik, Ace etc...

Jul 19, 2013 at 8:36am

Yup, you truly are attracted to these douchebags. Ugliness aside, why would you like someone who is selfish, a drug degenerate, ambitionless - in general terms trailer trash (like yourself?) You make it sound like both of you were romantically in love on paper like something out of a novel. Did you consider this guy just knew what to say and agree with you? And you fell for it because you're used to it. It wasn't a breath of fresh air, just another fart from a different pig. It sounds like all you losers can't continue education and find a good job so you're forced to be leeches on society. As far as the ugliness goes, this sounds like an episode of Seinfeld where George couldn't go out with a woman that looked identical to Jerry. But either way, you're the idiot.

BlindReaders

Jul 19, 2013 at 10:45pm

you peeps really need to learn how to interpret what others are saying correctly.
The OP said that they met someone who had similarities (in appearance) to their ex's new fling. Either a girly-guy, or a guy-like girl.. and an ugly one.
REGARDLESS of those two immidiate natural turn offs, they felt they shared many interests, and had some great conversations so they decided to give it a go anyway, because you never know... they could be a good person.. within that week shortly discovered that this ugly chick/dude, was not only ugly on the outside but on the inside as well.. and had many of the same "ugly" traits as the person they even looked similar to. and dropped them.
the summary of the text is saying, The OP COULD date an ugly person if they were beautiful on the inside, and so took the time to get to know the person finding that they were rotten inside as well as out.
finishing with the statement, translation: "they could MAYBE let an extremely attractive person get away with the traits listed.. because at least they are hot. But in order to date someone that physically ugly, that person would have to have some pretty amazing things about them besides looks."

You are all idiots

and you're welcome