submissive
posted November 7th, 2013 at 9:01 PM
my dom wants to introduce a third into our mix and he hasn't even had sex with me yet! I'm so angry I could throw heavy objects at him. he says I'm too possessive. really?! bullshit. this is bullcrap, right?? how do I make him see he's a jerk while still being respectful.
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Nov 7, 2013 at 9:43pm
Tell him to go fuck himself or the third and leave. You be the dom for a change.
umm
Nov 8, 2013 at 12:21am
i have no comment.
Well...
Nov 8, 2013 at 1:04am
Talk to him, without calling him a jerk no matter how tempting it is right now. Explain your side in best detail you can.
However, considering that he's brushed your feelings aside as as "too possessive"(has he told you you're "overreacting"?) he sounds more like a selfish boy than a dom. Odds are he will not come to see your side, because it does not fit his wants. If he continues to brush your feelings aside, then leave him. Find a monogamous dom who shares your beliefs and will respect you. He is out there!
deal with it
Nov 8, 2013 at 10:22am
He's the dom. Dom/Sub is a non-sex thing right? LOL anyway, he's a selfish turd. Dump him.
Quizzical eyebrow
Nov 8, 2013 at 11:58am
How can you be too passive if you are a sub? That means he wants you to fight back...I dont know about you but that sounds like a rape fantasy which means underlying mental issues for this man, RUN.
(Also you cant respect someone you can walk all over.)
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