ashamed for no reason.
posted March 2nd, 2014 at 3:06 AM
i dont flirt. i dont tease. i be myself but still consciously aware that im a little attractive so i try my best to hold back a bit to not give off the wrong idea. and still, the opposite sex that i hangout with make a move on me. It's disgusting and annoying and my friends are dropping like fucking flies because of it. I'm scared to hangout with anyone now. Please get it in your head that "lets go for a skate" doesnt mean grab my ass and try to kiss me. nor does "come watch a movie with my roommate and i". Seriously guys wtf is wrong with you...UHG. And what really sucks is here i am thinking "man we're such great buds" and enjoying your company, meanwhile you're just looking at me like a piece of fucking ass or something to stick your prick in. I'm hurt, i'm offended and im pissed. I feel like i need to carry around a "stop objectifying me" bat or something. Jesus...does anyone value friendship in this city anymore?
11 Comments
Post a CommentThat sucks
Mar 2, 2014 at 6:41am
some men feel entitled, and some of them are just not capable of respecting a person, a woman, as just a friend, just as a guy friend. how offensive I'm sorry that enough dudes are like that to create a rep. They don't deserve you as a friend, you're far too cool.
DShK
Mar 2, 2014 at 8:07am
What do you expect? If you hang out with single guys and you're single(and attractive), then in their heads you're a target for their desires. Unless you straight up tell them you're not interested they're going to be thinking 'potential!' no matter what.
Valid point.
Mar 2, 2014 at 9:24am
However it is "I" not "i". Using a lower case "i" is working against what you are saying.
As you get older you will fuck your friends, because hey... good friends make great relationships right? Friends first? Never had that work for me, actually I lost friends and got hurt. Value yourself and the rest will follow. Carry a bat to emphasize your point if and when necessary.
This Had Been Covered Before...
Mar 2, 2014 at 9:48am
Yes people do value friendships, but more often than not...at some stage in the "friendship" there will be one person who wants, or imagines, it can be more. There are many situations where friends do go on to to be in actual relationships or FWB's, Good Friends, Hanging Out etc, but there are just as many instances where the friendship can end because of a sloppy move or the situation becomes uncomfortable. Timing is everything; and life is
complicated.
Crushaholic
Mar 2, 2014 at 9:58am
Seems like "friendship" is too much work for some people. I can understand why we all hang on to our wallets these days, but it's sad when we also hold back on our time and our capacity to care.
No,
Mar 2, 2014 at 10:47am
No we don't
My experience
Mar 2, 2014 at 11:58am
Men and women can't be friends. One will always want something more.
Get a shirt that says
Mar 2, 2014 at 12:31pm
Please love me, even though I have Herpes
That will fix your problem (or possibly cause a bunch of men with Herpes to flock your way)
can't we all just get a bong!
Mar 2, 2014 at 12:46pm
it's called nature! thats what we do!
albeit , that doesn't mean guys have to be douchebags : and vice versa.
just be straightforward , you'll save yourself and others from the monotony of some of these posts. what kind of guys are you hanging out with? you might want to reconsider.
ashamed for what? no reason...exactly!
Mar 2, 2014 at 1:28pm
gimme a break! your're a single attractive female that makes a conscientious effort not to tease, flirt, or give the wrong impression.
your smart enough to figure that out ; so stop hanging out with douchebags.
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