Just Can't

seem to get past the 2-year point in relationships. After that time, I feel heartfelt disinterest. Save for one love which lasted years. But he is long gone.

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Wow

Mar 22, 2014 at 5:03pm

No one can know the future; however, it seems you are destined for a lonely
life.

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Understand

Mar 23, 2014 at 9:10am

I understand, at the two year mark I mention marriage and a future together and they run scared. The one guy that wanted a future with me I really didn't want a future with him. Things about his personality really drove me nuts and not in a good way more like a how-can-you-be-so-stupid-way. Sometimes I think I should of but I wouldn't be happy or fulfilled and would be constituently frustrated. I maybe alone but at least I'm not stuck with someone I don't want to be with.

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don't worry

Mar 24, 2014 at 9:36am

Do you think it might just be mental at this point? Perhaps the thought of approaching your second year mark brings you fear and you automatically and without knowing convince yourself this is the end and you won't love the person any more.

My boyfriend and I have been together for more than 6 years now and I go through periods when I briefly lose interest. Or at least it feels like I do, but when I snap out of it I realize I would not want to be with anyone else and love him more than ever.

You should try giving yourself a little time when you feel that way, and see if it lasts.

Wish you the best :)

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It is science.

Mar 24, 2014 at 5:43pm

Look it up.
2-3 months,
2 years, 5 years, 7 years...
there are biological and psychological factors that increase the likely hood of break-up during these times.

All relationships go through ebbs and flows; friends, family and sexual partners. Some abide, others drift away.

You are half of the equation.

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