leave me alone ffs

Im almost 30 and I wish both my parents would stop revolving their damn world around me every god damn second of their life. I'm so fuckin sick of being the center of their attention my whole damn life. times when I just wanna be invisible they'd keep shining their spot light onto me, when I move away from it then they'll just keep chasing me until I become frustrated and inevitably crack, and then of course they'd get pissed off at me for not reacting the way they feel I'm supposed to react.

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move

Apr 15, 2014 at 10:18am

to a different city or province far away. Get call display on your phone. Explain nicely to them that you are needing boundaries as a grown adult and stick with those boundaries even if might seems uncomfortable to you or them at first. It sounds like they have control issues and possibly you are an only child. I moved 3 provinces over and it made a world of difference.

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don't worry . . .

Apr 15, 2014 at 10:52am

One day, they will be dead and you will regret your feelings. Save up for an estimated $10k in future therapy sessions to help you get over the fact you are such a self centered prick.

Or, if you are just a troll, then go hide under a bridge without Internet connectivity and piss off FFS.

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you're 30

Apr 15, 2014 at 11:38am

try acting like it

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Angie

Apr 15, 2014 at 12:36pm

I spent most of my 20s resenting my parents for how much they nagged me and criticized me and pushed me. Then I hit 30 and realized that their "revolvoing their life around me" was not because they were trying to be difficult - they were being parents. Parents care about their children and they show it through their interest in their children's life. You don't want them to be interested, move away and don't tell them where you are.

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Hannah

Apr 15, 2014 at 12:39pm

The OP will be the same person who will move away and cut off all contact with his parents. And then when his parents die, he (or she) will come back with their pockets empty and their hands out seeking alms from the estate. "I'm their child - I deserve a piece of the pie!"

Their your fucking parents and gave you life, you ungrateful sod. They may or may not have had a direct hand in giving you the "life" you life, but without them, you wouldn't be here to whine about it. I hope your wish comes true, and not to your benefit.

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You Should

Apr 15, 2014 at 2:22pm

Try and cherish your parents while they are alive. No one knows your
exact circumstances, and things may be inconvenient, or a hassle, now, but one day they will not be here. You only get one pair, bring them close in the
ways you can.

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cuz

Apr 15, 2014 at 4:12pm

Hell, just be thankful you have parents. All of us were not so lucky!!

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Shaking My Head

Apr 15, 2014 at 9:16pm

You should either move out or have a frank discussion with them about giving you some space.

You should just be THANKFUL you have parents that give a shit. U will miss them when they are gone.

You sound like an Ungrateful Prick.

SMH

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Joe

Apr 15, 2014 at 11:01pm

Grow the FK up. What a joke, 30...

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god....

Apr 16, 2014 at 12:25am

i am so jealous. i dont have parents, they both died while i am still quite young.. i really wish you could see how lucky you are to have someone let alone 2 people love you that much!!! why not shine the spot light on them for a change? treat them....take them out for dinner or tea or for a walk on the seawall. turn the tables and be the adult. they will love it. its time for them to be spoiled. that is my envious and regretful........: ( 2 cents.

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