To being better men

Five years ago, I constantly cheated on my girlfriend (at the time). She had suspicions, I would deny it all... Until she found proof. I got caught because eventually the lies caught up with me. She was amazing but that didn't stop my ego from chasing other things, like feeling good about myself through sleeping with other women. If you asked me back then if I thought that I really, truly loved her, I would say yes. Ask me now, I will say that I definitely loved myself more back then. I'm not boastful about being that way, I'm rather remorseful that she suffered from my own selfish desires. She didn't deserve that. I didn't deserve her. Now, I try to be a man that deserves the girl, not one who pretends that he does. It took some serious self-discovery and forgiveness, falling in love again and a baby girl later to realize I can't live life being that way. For the record, I really am sorry for being the huge douchebag I once was. Cheers to being better people. More importantly, better men who protect our women instead of hurting them. I hope we all become the best version of ourselves. Ps. Happy Father's Day to all the dad's and mom's out there. You rock.

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You Rock!

Jun 14, 2014 at 7:32pm

what a great read. Thank you!

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thumbs up

Jun 15, 2014 at 11:21am

to personal growth.

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In the words of Jay-Z...

Jun 16, 2014 at 1:31pm

..."See I have demons in my past, so I've got daughters on the way". Good luck.

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