...is that you care. Start there and go forward building the rest. Call someone, the crisis line, your doctor, anyone for help starting to pull yourself out of the spiral you're in.

Many care but they don't want to make you feel distressed or uncomfortable, so they look away/pretend nothing's wrong, etc. Take note of "My bet...'s" comment and follow it. And maybe try reaching out to someone, too. Say a simple "Hi" with a kind smile. Even something so simple can brighten up your day. I'm a complete introvert and it works for me. Maybe it'll do the same for you. :) Also, we should be friends.

why do you feel this way? someone out there cares, in fact a lot of people that post here care. get out of your rut, you deserve better. lots to do in this town for no money if you care to. the effort can seem to be huge to improve things but you have to take the initiative. hang in there.

Do you care about other people? I'm guessing not. So why should anyone care about you? It goes both ways pal!

Some suggestions:

1. Remember - there are other lonely people in this city, so you're not the only one in this boat.

2. If you're open to it, consider attending church (or a temple or whatever) - it can be a great way to build a sense of family/community around you. If this option works for you, try one, see how it feels. Remember that each congregation is different based on where it's located (some have more kids or whatever).

3. Ask your doctor if there's a support group for your condition (or look online). That might help you feel less isolated - and positive, if the people in the group have positive things to share as well.

4. Try Meetup. There are lots of great groups out there. Focus on something that truly appeals to you and get out there.

5. Be patient with yourself. If you're a shy person (I am) don't expect that friends will suddenly fall into your lap if you try any of the above. You may have to keep going over and over until you feel comfortable and open up. Be reasonable in your expectations of you.

6. Get off the computer and out in the real world. On a beautiful sunny day, rather than assuming that everybody is out having a great time and you're not, get out there. It's a beautiful city - go for a walk. I've done the Seawall on my own - I like looking at people, the scenery, enjoying being out. Exercise (even walking 20 minutes a day) is great help for depression.

7. Weekends can be the hardest for singles. For me, it's assuming everybody is having a better time. See if you can find ways to keep busy. Doesn't have to cost a lot - go to the library, local coffee shop, whatever. Or treat yourself to something 'decadent', like a Netflix binge and have fun with it.

8. Remember - not everybody who seems 'happy' is happy. Some married people in unhappy relationships can be terribly lonely, too.

9. I see being single as a world of opportunity - you never know what's around the corner. And life can sometimes surprise you, for the better.

Hope this helps. Best of luck to you.

I don't know you, but I DO CARE. I have dealt with chronic pain most of my life. Other people don't know it and sometimes think I'm an ass because my responses are sometimes short and critical, or because I don't participate in a lot of social activities. Love yourself, be kind to yourself, take care of yourself. Meditation, exercise, a clear mind, and a kick ass positive attitude will go far. No matter how bad you may have it, someone else has it much worse. Perspective.

I am going through the same thing. Weekends are the hardest. Hang in there.