Stop being there when he comes crawling in. I made that mistake years ago. He won't stop until he's finally ready. It won't be because you threaten him to leave, trust me. Don't waste your valuable time only to find that 3-4 years later you're repeating the exact same thing.

PS, I would have been A OK with 2 am!

If you don't like this --- End it now.
He's showing you who he is.
He won't change for anyone.
Don't settle for less.
You deserve better.

It sucked even worse when he impregnated me and then never came home. Needless to say, we are donezo. I would grab your sassypants and get out and rock yourself. You will soon see how many other men are more interested in rocking your world than he is. And by the time he's 40, his brain will be mush anyway. Seriously. You are dating an asshole, Honey. That's a problem YOU need to fix. Come on now.

if you don't have the same goals and aspirations, it won't work. it's ok to party every weekend if that's your deal, however it doesn't appear to be yours. no match. some people don't settle down until they're older, others never do.

Sex ??? Are people still doing that?? Is it still Fun ?? I think I better restart my mojo.

Just let me know where you live and when he leaves I'll come over and most definitely make you feel fulfilled, content and loose if you know what I mean. And after that, Ill tell you this much, you'll never ever so alone ever again, but instead you'll feel so gitty, excited and anxious for him to leave....just let me know. I'm the BoyNextDoor.

You fell for him because he was the "badboy" party boy, and now you can't handle it.

Girls: They are never satisfied.
Girls: They don't know what they want
Girls: Dont know the difference between a loser deadbeat and a "badboy"

why don't you try becoming a woman?

Get lost....

is because he would rather party with his friends, and he is taking you for granted. it sounds like you are a nice person who fell for someone who is looking for a bitch. unless you can become one - and you shouldn't - it will never ever change.