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posted June 15th, 2014 at 4:30 AM

I went out with some girlfriends today and I noticed an overwhelming amount of attractive men this city has to offer. I also noticed they're all very approachable and have no issues asking a lady for a dance/drink/number. I seriously don't get you Vancouver women who write on here daily complaining about how hard it is to meet a man. It's NOT hard if you have something to offer. I'm not trying to sound like a bitch but I believe the same rule of thumb applies here that it does everywhere else.. If you're decent looking you'll get approached. Keep a good conversation going and maybe you'll snag yourself a date.

19 Comments

Roger1234

Jun 15, 2014 at 1:36pm

It is quite easy to date in this city if you are decent looking. It doesn't take a genius to realize that if you an attractive woman out at a bar or a club that you will get approached by men. It is difficult to date if you are not decent looking which applies to probably 75% of the population.

@OP

Jun 15, 2014 at 2:04pm

I agree with the point you are trying to make but your delivery tactics could use some work. I could explain where you went wrong but doubt you would understand. Good luck....

@roger1234

Jun 15, 2014 at 2:15pm

Well in that case... move to outer space. Because that's the only place where it might be easier to date if you're part of that 75 percent. It isn't a "Vancouver" being stuck up thing it's a world thing. Men approach women who look good. If you're trying to attract someone with your personality and not your looks try online dating. Men don't approach mediocre women with hopes that she will have a stellar personality. They'll approach a good looking lady hoping she can hold a conversation then go from there. It's common sense.

Jenna

Jun 15, 2014 at 2:33pm

What part of your body did you have on display? T or A?

DD

Jun 15, 2014 at 2:39pm

Enjoy being 'decent looking' honey, it doesn't last long.

Mr A

Jun 15, 2014 at 2:58pm

I'm a average looking guy, but never get approached by women my age range & my disadvantage is that I'm middle-aged,I just feel I'm not a charming enough guy & certainly not a great looking one, I'm afraid that if I say hi to woman (even in my age range), she'll think I'm some perverted creep.

it helps

Jun 15, 2014 at 4:34pm

If you manifest, that you have the largest pen15 too ;)

PS: ovbs if you're in the 25th percentile it's easier. Just wait till you get to that top 5 though, that's when it really get tricky.

@jenna

Jun 15, 2014 at 4:57pm

How about just F and P? As in face and personality.

Get a grip lady.

A Lesbian's says....

Jun 15, 2014 at 5:55pm

Vancouver has the most consistently casually dressed or outright sloppily dressed people I've seen in North America- and I've been in most of the major Canadian and US cities.

Casual is nice, don't get me wrong.....but guys- a well dressed guy catches a woman's attention.

Girls...it's your choice, but; how about when dressing leaving a little bit to the imagination?

@OP

Jun 15, 2014 at 7:15pm

You've basically insulted Vancouver women as complainers, ugly, and nothing to offer. How can we keep a good conversation going when you've just said we are of no value. You don't want to sound like a bitch? Umm, too late.