If your a good mom to them, then that's what counts. Look for what you are proud of that's what matters, especially to your children.

You should be ashamed. Why didnt you use birth control?

For all you young men dating out there let this be a lesson to you: Always wear a fucking condom. If a woman says she is on birth control she has the control, not you. How would you like to be one of the fathers she does know about paying child support for 18 years knowing your money is also going to help pay for 4 other mens mistakes.

Astonishing.

I call troll.

Why be ashamed of not knowing the names of your adopted children's fathers?

Confession

because I KNOW you. You're the chick who has 6, not 4 children all by different men. You should be ashamed of yourself.

Who cares if you don't know the name(s) of the father(s) to your child(ren)? What does it really matter? My mother knows my father and has been married to him for 50+ years. They're in a love/hate relationship. I'm the fifth child. My mom has made it very clear they only wanted four children. My mom has told me that they never wanted me and never planned on having me. I was told by my mom that my mom didn't want to have sex with my dad the night I was conceived because she knew she'd get pregnant, but he forced her to. They never wanted me but they had me. When I was growing up my life was very difficult. Even as an adult I've never received the love of my parents, and they "know eachother". I've always felt unwanted and unloved my entire life. My mom even has said to me that she could've had an abortion, but she didn't! They don't love me. Sometimes I wish I was adopted. They're not very loving parents. My dad won't talk to me when I call them on the phone. He hangs up on me. They don't even phone for my birthday or send a card in the mail. The point to my story is it doesn't really matter if you don't know the father. What does matter is being a loving compassionate generous parent to any child no matter who the father is or isn't.