Crazy Vancouver Women

It just seems like women in Vancouver seem extremely desperate to find men to marry and have kids with. Its as if their internal clock has rung and they need to jump on the next guy with a pulse and start popping out babies. On a first date they ask you all these crazy questions like do you want kids, when do you plan on getting married, how much money do you make, etc. These women need to calm down. We're just having coffee at Starbucks. Those questions make you seem desperate and crazy. Its like they're interrogating me. Also at the end don't insist on me meeting your friends and family. Its a first date I don't even know if I want to even see you again. I wish women in Vancouver weren't so crazy and desperate.

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Same same but different...

Sep 21, 2014 at 8:07am

Female here, casual coffee date on the beach with a man who actually asked "So what is your five year plan?" and I thought, 'well I sure as hell wont be sitting here with you...'
Way too much interrogation and not enough fun exploration.

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Ha Ha!

Sep 21, 2014 at 9:03am

Born and raised in Vancouver. So totally not that woman. I hear ya! I like your wit. Anyway, I make my own money so I don't ask super stupid shallow shit like that. Try upgrading, Honey. Set those sights a little higher. We're here. In the unexpected places. xo

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female, different, plus some insight

Sep 21, 2014 at 9:56am

Ok, first of all, after having been in a bunch of relationships, I've come to realize that I prefer being single. It's just more fun aNd peaceful -none of the whole "battle of the sexes" bullshit.... no more the guy being all attentive in the beginning and then being taken for granted once we're in a relationship.

Now, women (and men! -in cities all over the world) will most likely ask long-term type questions if they're "normal" type people who want to have the normal life of marriage and kids -and they may even ask these questions in the first date because they don't want to waste time pursuing something that isn't going to go anywhere.
"What about just having fun?" -well we live in such a sped-up society now, there are so many things people want to do and experience, and our time is so short, that people just don't want to "waste time" anymore.

So if you go on a date with someone who asks long-term questions and you just want something casual, just tell them that and then you can go your separate ways.
Or better yet, let them know BEFORE you even go out on a date.

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Don't Paint Us all With the Same Brush

Sep 21, 2014 at 10:32am

Yes, because the fact that you've been on dates with some women like this means that every woman in Vancouver is the exact same way. I am most certainly not, and I know plenty others who aren't as well.

I greatly dislike any post that completely generalizes the other gender as all being a certain way due to the action of a few (whether it's "all women are desperate" or "all men are pigs" etc.). Seems like such a lazy and immature conclusion to make. Maybe look at people as individuals - it might help you out a lot in your dating life.

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Hey now,

Sep 21, 2014 at 10:47am

it's not all "vancouver women". It depends who your crowd is and the type of women you're going after. Don't peg us altogether. The people I hang around with would NEVER say shit like that. You could also try going for someone a little younger who doesn't have marriage and babies on the brain?

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Stop having Starbuck Dates

Sep 21, 2014 at 10:53am

seriously. lol

I'm guessing these are online meets.

So many problems with this. Number one, is selecting from pictures and hoping to find someone you have a connection (beyond just liking their profile pic) and wanting the same things in life.

Lazy people meet online then go to Starbucks. So no surprise they want to jump from step one to step 10 in one date.(or I should say right after "hello")

Online guys just want hook ups (the easy sex on the first meet girl-which is of course is very easy to find. Unfortunately the girls agenda is to hook him. the guy just ignored the clues because he was focused on the pics.

her love (sex) "don't cost a thing" more than a Starbucks but if the car, job, and money is right her next step is "Meet the Parents"

Find a date in the real world, OR improve your clicking skills and who you ask out on a "date".

Maybe find out this info by calling her BEFORE you ask her out on such a lavish date. lol

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for crying out loud

Sep 21, 2014 at 11:12am

I am so sick of this "Vancouver women", "Vancouver men" whinging - it's not that generalized people. It's your experience. It's who you are choosing to notice and spend time with. Perhaps broaden your horizons and seek outside your habitual pool?

Not EVERY Vancouver woman is desperate to get married, have children, fleece a man for whatever, screw for social status, etc. And not EVERY Vancouver man is a man-child incapable of making a commitment, being kind, loving, vulnerable, etc. Get over yourself and try something new because doing the same thing over and over again and expecting different results is insanity (thank you Albert Einstein).

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this is the advice

Sep 21, 2014 at 11:25am

that people read in all the self-help books and magazines where the focus is on taking charge of your own life. Articles that say "just go with the flow" don't appear to empower people and don't sell. Also, it is a biological fact that women of a certain age feel the need to have children (internal clock) so that might be the age group you are dating.

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Funny..

Sep 21, 2014 at 11:35am

How when a guy says it,he gets mostly negative response.

Yet when a woman says the same thing,she gets 90% positive.

Hmmmm

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Vancouver Real Estate = Drug Money

Sep 21, 2014 at 1:00pm

Vancouver is not for finding your soulmate, it is for sucking all your life forces from you body and leaving you a withered, shrivelled mass of putrid slime oozing into the cracks of the sidewalk. Oh another thing, why does Granville street smell like a used day old ashtray.

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