love/hate

posted November 26th, 2014 at 9:01 PM

Had a huge falling out with my sister. She screwed me around AGAIN! And she is the one who cut me out of her life completely which was a shocker. One one hand I feel really sad about the situation but secretly I think, Good, I'm so sick of your f==ing drama, leave me alone!!

3 Comments

Perhaps she is totally

Nov 30, 2014 at 4:49pm

sick of your f==cking need for control and the need to be the spotlight all the G.D. time. Just sayin'...

She might also have had enough years of

Dec 1, 2014 at 9:57am

letting your hissy fits control the situation when things don't go exactly how you've scripted them out in your mind. You may happen to be so effing controlling that she cringes at the thought of having to spend time with you. Perhaps she doesn't appreciate having every subject she brings up being shot all to hell by you; thereby making her feel that her existence doesn't matter? (btw, does it?) Have you ever thought of surrendering and just letting things happen? Great and wonderful things can happen when you let them.

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Dec 1, 2014 at 10:58am

I don't know why the comments are always so negative toward posters who post about conflicts between siblings. We don't know enough about the situation to say who's at fault. Probably both should take part of the blame. What makes you think OP is controlling and that this is the cause of their conflict? Stop projecting from your own experiences.

For what it's worth, here's a confession that you might relate to. Most of the comments are negative but there are a few that you might find helpful. How about making a New Year's resolution to resolve the issues between you two? Good luck.

http://www.straight.com/confessions/1410/i-hate-my-life