Past the pinnacle

posted November 20th, 2014 at 5:14 AM

I always thought I was a late bloomer..eventually I would be able to grow facial hair consistently and not look like a 14 year old in my mid twenties, would gain enough weight and muscle to obtain the 10's and not the 6's, or the 7's with issues. I thought this for years as I slowly improved every aspect of myself until I started losing hair and I realized that WAS the high point, and now I'm a balding 14 year old in my early thirties and the 6's ignore me.

25 Comments

Cereal killer

Nov 20, 2014 at 9:10am

Wow numbers don't pay attention to you. I personally like women myself , oh you math nerds you.....

Btw Pinnacle is an old turret, you meant apex

kid,

Nov 20, 2014 at 9:27am

I'm 23, and even I know, its because you "think/reference" them as sixes and sevens.

Every individual has insecurities.
They just bite you in the butt when you let them.
Go work or get in shape, build your self confidence, and the "6s n'7s" will start coming up to you.
Then you'll realize, the physical attraction is just a starting point.
Also shave your head and rock the chrome dome, it takes testicles, like long hair.

Best of luck!

@ cereal killer

Nov 20, 2014 at 9:33am

You fail Word Definition 101. One of the meanings of pinnacle is the highest or culminating point of success, power, fame, etc. As you pointed out, pinnacle also refers to an architectural detail.

OP - how about you notice people instead of numbers? Try being in your 30's rather than 14. It may make for more enriching experiences. Personally, I'd take a bald man over a hairy one any day.

This is so gross

Nov 20, 2014 at 9:40am

Women aren't objects to be "obtained". Maybe if you worried about growing a personality instead of facial hair your dating life would improve.

RUK

Nov 20, 2014 at 10:45am

Dude.

Shave it.

Double down on the gym time, you'll be fine physically. Personality wise, you're on your own.

Be careful what you wish for...

Nov 20, 2014 at 10:59am

Luckily I figured out very young that chasing women was a waste of time,effort,money,emotion etc.

Concentrate on making money/improving yourself.And if you're smart,take wise risks,and make it-your women problems will consists of having too much choice.
Been there,done that.

But just don't marry nor even live with them and end up having to give them half,even if there are no kids.

Natty

Nov 20, 2014 at 11:01am

You think your looks are keeping women away? HA! Even the ugliest guys can land so-called "10s" when they have personality and charm.

@RUK

Nov 20, 2014 at 11:41am

"Personality wise, you're on your own."

That's what you call hitting the proverbial nail on the head.

Crushaholic

Nov 20, 2014 at 11:47am

Deep down inside of you is a 14 year old with a beautiful pure soul who wants to be loved and admired for who he is. What happened to him? Divorced parents? Abusive parents? Heart badly broken at an important age?

If you acknowledge and cherish him, you'll stop objectifying yourself. When you stop objectifying yourself, you'll stop objectifying women. When you stop objectifying women, you might actually get laid.

Seriously, you don't want anything to do with the airhead 10's who objectify men. If you still do, YOU'RE the one who is the 7... "with issues".

@OP

Nov 20, 2014 at 11:48am

It has nothing to do with your hair friend. If you're warm, funny and maybe a little exciting... women could care less how many hair follicles you're rocking. Or for that matter how buff you are.

Try not to see females as a number... the sexiest women i've been with wouldn't rank high in your 1 to 10 scheme. It's aaaalll about charm, wit and character! Sexy comes courtesy of that.