I hope you find what you are looking for. Merry Christmas

I hope you get what you want! Merry Christmas

Does a part-time job count? I mow lawns when I feel like it. I don't have any issues except I'm addicted to skittles. I live in a van with a big king-size mattress and quadraphonic sound system! If you don't like losing at Yahtzee, stay away!

I am not the OP but you sound like a pretty sweet scene. Keep on keeping on.

How about a man with those qualities who will date YOU. Whatever SSBBW means, you may want to stop identifying with that. You could be using it as limiting label and short selling yourself. Love, the Robot Monster.

I know there are normal people out there. I haven't met any personally, but I'm sure they exist.

p.s. I'm better at Yahtzee than Scott.

If you threw in that you like squashing, I might be interested.

As long as you too had a job, were normal, and liked large dudes.

I guess I'll bite since no one else is asking...what is an SSBBW?

@therobotmonster

SSBBW means "fat."

Appearance is not everything, obviously. Personality counts in the long, medium, and short run because nothing is more important than kindness. Then there are other factors like your view of religion, whether you speak the same language, and, crucially, if you show up for a date wearing jeans (shudder).

But appearance is obviously part of the total package. She ain't reducing herself to a label. Or maybe she is. OP, are you reducing yourself to a label?