30 Year Old Virgin

I am 30 years old and a virgin. My friends make fun of me for it and say I "need" to have sex. However, I have no desire to. It's not that I never want to, because I never thought I would be 30 and a virgin, but I just want my first time to be with someone who will be respectful of the fact that I AM a virgin as opposed to a random hook-up with a random guy.

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L.L.

Mar 24, 2015 at 10:12am

Yay!! Stay strong! You are quality.

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Anonymous

Mar 24, 2015 at 4:15pm

Looking back, I wish I could take back all previous sexual experiences before I met my current bf. That would have made me a virgin until age 35. A proud, disease-free, non-battered, emotionally stable, university-educated virgin. Be proud of who you are, and are not.

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Your body, your rules

Mar 24, 2015 at 4:40pm

Your friends are just projecting their insecurities onto you. Humans feel threatened whenever they encounter a person who consciously makes a choice that is different from theirs.

It used to piss me off that if I said that I was a virgin by choice for religious reasons, peers (people whom I would not consider to be "friends" but still had to see on a regular basis) would leave me alone. If I said it was simply a personal choice, they didn't respect it. I've since learned to say that it IS for religious reasons - The Church of Me, congregation of one.

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I'm glad there are others!

Mar 24, 2015 at 5:14pm

I sometimes feel self conscious about being a virgin, because of being judged negatively by others. I am a very private person though, so nobody really knows anyways(except for a couple people). However, I am actually really proud and secure with the decisions that I've made, so I really should just be confident about it and own it.

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I waited too

Mar 25, 2015 at 1:52am

Best decision. I didn't tell anyone so i didn't have to deal with judgement but i had sex with my ex and we were together for 3 years and I'm glad he was my first.

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34 YR OLD HERE

Mar 25, 2015 at 3:47pm

well u are not alone! Still waiting...

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Other options

Apr 17, 2015 at 2:07pm

You can always get yourself a reasonable escort (male/female) whose job is to make it special for ya.

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