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I am recently single from my first gay relationship. I met her on tinder. I always knew I had an attraction to women but I didn't know how to approach women or were to find gay women in vancouver. Can someone give me advice? Where to go, how I know if someone's gay.. I don't want to go on tinder again.. It felt so...unnatural. Xox newbie gal

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dance

Apr 21, 2015 at 1:47am

Hershe bar at the reed room,

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Go check out

Apr 21, 2015 at 9:30am

the superdyke site!

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Hmm...

Apr 21, 2015 at 9:40am

I know at the Cobalt they do a "hustla homo hip hop" thing, I think most Saturdays. And then they do "Man up" sometimes on Saturdays which I think is pretty much the same thing.

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Go for a walk

Apr 21, 2015 at 10:56am

Walk down commercial drive, should take you about a minute to meet somebody new.

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All good options

Apr 21, 2015 at 11:35am

Above posts offer great options for meeting people. I would also suggest using an online dating site to meet friends, or one gay gal friend with whom to go out and the rest will follow.

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just gotta get out there

Apr 21, 2015 at 1:06pm

The Cobalt (every weekend they do queer events, but Man Up is especially girl-centric), get involved with queer sports (mabel league, queer van hoops, bump volleyball), hershe, tomboy...keep an eye out for denim vest (its only every couple months but its SO GOOD). Heartwood does Femme meetups (theres one this friday) so if that's how you identify they're usually really friendly and have little get to know each other games.
The person who suggested making a queer friend who's more social isn't a bad plan, either. good luck!

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rainbowcrab

Apr 25, 2015 at 10:37pm

I met my wife on the SuperDyke site. We met almost 12yrs ago and got married 3yrs ago.

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