Women crave validation AND they are insecure. They will try telling you it is men who made them this way... whatevs!

I wonder what women think when they see these plunging neck lines in a store? Do they think, "I might get some unwanted attention with this on in the office". I have my doubts about that.

They probably think, "I'll look so hot with this on in the office". Then they do that 'perv thing'.

Being a guy, when I chat with with a female coworker, I'll cover my crotch and give them the 'perv' look.

Ha ha ha, this is great! I often wonder what some of these gals were thinking when they got dressed that morning. The only dudes doing the ogling/drooling are 40 yr olds and up! Not a Beiber in sight! Probably not what they envisioned when they bought the garment.

I've been shamed all my life for "enticing attention" for just having huge tits even in a baggy t-shitt so I automatically adjust my clothes out of modesty. It is conditioned behaviour to not come across as vapid or easy otherwise I am labelled as a floozy.

"I don't understand when women wear low cut tops that show their cleavage and then when you look accidentally for a split second (because it is looking right at you) they cover themselves with their sweaters like you are a perv."

You mean 'some women,' not women in general. No, that's not how most women behave. In fact, I've never done any of the things that you described and have never seen any woman acting that way either. When I dress to show a bit of cleavage, I'm proud of it and don't mind people looking as long as they're not so obvious as to make things awkward. Of course, I'm careful not to show too much, and always make sure there is no wardrobe malfunction. But never do I try to act falsely modest or accuse people of being a perv. Not sure of what kind of women you have in your circles but it would be great if you could stop generalizing to all women, and perpetuating the belief (apparently shared by many men on Confessions) that most women are manipulative, crave attention/validation, like to play games, etc. There are many mature, confident and straightforward women out there. The men who subscribe to these stereotypes and believe that all women are the same are exactly the ones that I want to avoid.

So i am a small boobed girl and i don't get this. I see woman ALL. THE. TIME with low cut tops and boobs hanging out. Sometimes put on display and sometimes not. Either way, regardless if you have big ones, small ones, or you are a man or woman. YOU ARE GOING TO LOOK! Anyone who disagrees is lying. How can you not? It's boobs. Personally though I would never want big ones. I would hate that unwanted boob attention and my FAVOURITE this is to be braless whenever it won't be to noticeable. Its feels wonderful to let them hang there, all perky and free! So all you cleavage people, if you put them out there were all going to look. You are displaying them for everyone to see. If you don't want them looked at and them assessed put the puppies away :-)

If you fit her idea of an "alpha male" or she likes your looks ie tall,maybe dark haired,well built,may have money- then catching you looking at her is appreciated.
Only one or none of the above= you are yet another creepy pervert dude.

Just like the Lulu lemon wearers- cheeks and bits on display.