You are not alone.

why do you have to feel attractive and wanted ? you need to check yourself. Be happy with who you are and then you wont need to feel attractive and wanted. You just need to be you.

Cheer up, buttercup! :-) I felt the same way for a while. It helped me to join a few groups, like a movie group on Meetup.com, or a book club at your local library, or a walking club at your local recreation centre, for example. It made me feel much less self-conscious. I did some volunteering for a film festival too, and that was fantastic for my self-esteem. You don't have to be attractive to go out! Look around - there are ppl of all shapes and sizes out there, and you have just as much right to be out there as anyone else. Life is a fantastic gift - get out there and enjoy the sunshine! :-) Best wishes to you.

There are so many more levels to life than appearing to be "attractive" and therefore "wanted." Seek to be amongst those who value more than shallow things in life. That's where you belong.