get outta here!

posted July 2nd, 2015 at 7:38 PM

for years, this person has bothered the hell out of me and I kept letting them connect with me, kept them on my facebook and kept all the socially decent shit, like trying not to admit what an asshole they were and blah , blah, blah. but fuck it, they're an asshole and I am so glad they'er getting the message even if it hurts their feelings. so what? they hurt my being.

9 Comments

curious1sffc

Jul 2, 2015 at 11:24pm

Just curious if you have talked to thirds friend and told them they are an asshole

Diggy

Jul 2, 2015 at 11:26pm

Damn right! These assholes amongst us need to be served.

Diva

Jul 2, 2015 at 11:40pm

You sound so clueless and judgemental. Each person has a story, have a heart

Mirror Mirror on the wall...

Jul 3, 2015 at 2:40am

You contributed to the problem. First of all, you said it bothered the hell out of you. Yet you went through the charade of letting them contact you. And god forbid, this horrid person held a gun to your head the whole time to keep the oh-so-ever-important Facebook connection. You actually hurt your own being, and for all we know, you could have reflected the asshole-ness onto this person. After all, it takes one to know one.

Agree

Jul 3, 2015 at 2:55am

For most of my life, I was always civil to people even when there are issues between us, keeping them in my life, etc. Until I noticed that people weren't returning the favour: my e-mails/calls weren't returned, I was being ignored/snubbed, etc. That's when I realized that I don't have to be polite with everyone all the time. I started to not reply to e-mails when they don't deserve a reply, ignore friends requests or block people on FB who I don't want as friends, etc. I try not to be mean but some people don't deserve any respect from me.

Exes

Jul 3, 2015 at 10:14am

Is this person an ex? I hate when mine message me after umpteen years of no contact. They always do it when they're either in a miserable relationship and want a safety net, or they've just broken up with their latest girlfriend. I wish they would get this straight - I do not want you back. It didn't work then and it sure as hell won't work now.

A jerk?

Jul 3, 2015 at 12:58pm

Did we work at white spot?

You were important enough to me that I just always felt interest even as tides drew us apart. I can't believe I am paranoid even to ask but maybe I am just reading someone else's message but learning my own lesson.

I just always thought you were interested too.

Take heart poster, maybe he just feels fond. Maybe it's just a type of haiku in his life where he checks on you and gives you the space required.