I am submissive as F*ck

I am a feminist and I also enjoy being submissive in BDSM fasion. The two don't go against each other . But it makes dating very difficult. I need a dom who is smart enough to be able to understand that they go together well and be pro woman. It helps to be bi and also into Dom women. I don't think anyone could know this about me by just looking at or talking to me even

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Feminist Catch

Jul 5, 2015 at 8:34am

If you know what feminism is about, it is not what you enjoy in the bedroom. Some people will make it their mission to say that it is, but it's about a societal shift to equal rights.

Why would a feminist take away your right to enjoy yourself in the bedroom? That seems wrong, and ironically like that 1950s patriarchal attitude.

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Well...

Jul 5, 2015 at 11:57am

It's about choice. As long as you are bottoming voluntarily and not against your will, any true feminist shouldn't have a problem with that. Feminism should never have monopoly over your pleasure preferences or decisions.

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this is ridiculous

Jul 6, 2015 at 7:25am

Of course these 2 things don't go together. How is this any different to a homophobic woman who disagrees vehemently with homosexuality - it's meant to be about a man and a woman, period - but she secretly sleeps with other women...

Being dominated by men - being submissive, is exactly what you oppose as a feminist, no? Practice what you preach lady

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@this is ridiculous

Jul 6, 2015 at 2:39pm

Actually, feminism in its purest form does NOT mean dominance over men, but rather gender equality.

Clearly from your 'definition' you have very little knowledge of the term. A feminist is about choices for women in whatever role they wish to be in without oppression. So, if a feminist wants to be tied, spanked, flogged, dominated..it doesn't make her/him any less of a feminist.

oh and FYI, in case you're still on this feminists can't be submissive... in BSDM world, the subs have quite a bit of power. They're the ones who control the situation and the parameters as the doms have to ensure the subs are consenting and willing.

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White Raven

Jul 7, 2015 at 8:47pm

"smart enough" -perhaps.

Tho few Lucky enough
to have met many like you.

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