A normal relationship

posted August 26th, 2015 at 5:21 PM

Is something I'll never have. I'm a single man in my late 30's, never married but it's not for lack of trying. I'm good looking, kind, hate woman beaters and those who think they are inferior, and have a good job. But there is one thing that I look for in a potential partner, they have to be willing to engage in group sex. Now don't get me wrong, this doesn't mean I get to fuck as many women as I like. In my view we only play together and she can have as many men as I have women. But this will happen, if I'm denied multiple partners I'll end up cheating. So I bring this up early in dating to make it clear. So far I'm single but hopeful I'll find a lady who can be just as slutty as I am at night.

5 Comments

geeknomad

Aug 27, 2015 at 9:15am

It takes one to appreciate one.

A lady asked the other day if she should keep her freak contained. NO. NO, NO, NO! There's a shortage of it already. And I rarely use exclamation signs, so you know shit is real when...

Persist, and you will eventually succeed. Try different channels, network within the community, go to events, and hang out at likely places (nude beaches, for example).

Good fortune. I hope you find your turbocharged match.

Stay Single

Aug 27, 2015 at 10:23am

And figure out why you have such a need for this validation by treating your partner like shit.

Look elsewhere

Aug 28, 2015 at 4:36am

You aren't as likely to find someone in the general population who is into this but if you check out the polyamorous community you might meet someone you hit it off with. Many people are into "monogamish" relationships. This isn't impossible but you need to start by educating yourself about this lifestyle before you can practice it. You're not really selling the idea of it in a way that sounds appealing so learn more about it and you'll be able to teach potential partners all of the perks of being in a relationship with a primary partner but opening things up sexually from time to time.

Good luck!

You should

Aug 28, 2015 at 5:04am

Try to date a hooker.

catattack

Sep 2, 2015 at 3:10am

@geeknomad:
I don't know about you, but I don't go to a nude beach to find potential romantic partners. Likewise, I don't think those who attend a nude beach are necessarily monogamish or poly... they're people who (a) either go to wreck because you get the beautiful view (b) like to be nude (this really should have been option A) or (c) like to have more freedom to drink/use some drugs. I doubt that near the top of the list is people who are looking to hook up, but hey maybe that's what you go down there for. In which case, that really sucks. When I'm down there and I got some gross dude fully clothed, or in just a t-shirt, or just naked staring at me forever, I think oh wow, I feel so flattered that I get to be creeped on in the one place I have a right to be fully nude in public.
Don't go ANYWHERE with the intention to hook up, unless like it's actually a place for hooking up where consent by all have been given.