1- Move on, she's not into you like that and never will be.
2- If you don't mean to be offensive, why would you even mention that you don't find females funny? That kind of statement really shows your true character and ruins any chance of sympathy.

The number of guys who think girls aren't real people until they meet one they like amazes me.
If she's still dating the guy, she's probably not into you. If she knew how you felt about women, and her relationship, she'd probably stop talking to you.

I put $500 on OP being under 21

3 years ago.

OP, first you have to understand Gurls arnt logical people, and whom for the most part, arnt capable of making decisions and looking at the impacts of those decisions over a longer period than about a day. Picture a horse with blinders. That's pretty much a Gurl who ìs dating. IF, things totally go flip flop for her down the road she will blame it on 'èverything happens for a reason' rather than any poor judgement on her part; -- Its just how they work.
This gives you 2 options... 1. go for it aggressively - show her what she wants and needs since she doesn`t have the slightest clue.
Or 2. Just hang around, not really making things clear what you want and be prepared to put the side- usually for a guy who is a gambler, alcholoic, drug dealer -that type. Don't know why but these gurls with low esteem generally tend to think these are badboys and good partners.

All I am saying, if you are gonna go for it. Id say be clear and upfront about it and even just a tad agressive. - I wasnt and it didnt work out for me.

Tell her the truth about your feelings and how you view her, so that she understands why you won't be around, and walk away.

Sorry, mate. If she wants to stay where she is, you won't be able to behave rationally around her. This will end badly.

"I treated her like an equal human being and found out SHE was interesting"

Could you imagine the possibilities if you treated all women this way!!!!! You may even meet a funny, intelligent, and single woman!

"Show her what she wants and needs since she doesn't have the slightest clue..."
You're a complete joke. You, actually, are the clueless one.
You'll be single for life I hope.

Being respectful of the fact that she's in a relationship says a lot about you. There's a lot of garbage out there that would try to snake their way in.

I wish this was being written about me. I became friends with an amazing guy who seems to be withdrawing for no apparent reason. Can't help but wonder if he might be feeling like this poster because the situation is similar. We haven't disclosed feelings for one another, but I think there is a strong connection and wish we could talk about things openly for both of our sakes. I wonder if the object of the poster's affection has a clue that he feels this way? It takes balls to share and be vulnerable like that, but life is short and unrequited love sucks. In my case, I am struggling with feelings of my own. I would rather know why my friend has retreated than worry about what I might have done. Please tell her how you feel if you truly care.

If that's how you feel. Please break up with your boyfriend.