Fat Shaming

posted November 8th, 2015 at 9:16 PM

Ok I'm getting sick and tired of guys getting blamed for "fat shaming". Women do most of the fat shaming to each other. It's women who buy tabloids, it's women who talk about each other behind their backs, it's women who look at fashion (well women and gay men). However I'm on Fetlife and I can tell you from the pictures on there that plenty of guys with rock hard bodies and 6 pack abs are going for bigger girls, why? Bigger girls are better in bed, they know what to do and guys who like them know this. So ladies, lay off the guys and go after those twiggy model looking bitches. They are the ones fat shamming you, and I think it's out of jealousy, you can get the same guys they can.

10 Comments

Yep,

Nov 8, 2015 at 10:36pm

So true...

yep

Nov 9, 2015 at 7:45am

I dont fat shame. I just correct people who say its good to be round, and healthy to be happy with being overweight.

Lets keep things real.

kayla

Nov 9, 2015 at 8:20am

Iam a twiggy bich...but I hate all those adds with big girls shaming skinny girls...you know who wants to hug a twig .it all seems so hurt full in both directions...

supershy1

Nov 9, 2015 at 10:15am

Irony that you post one of the most sanctimonious rants I've read in a long time, saying it's women pitting against women and then end it by writing:

"Bigger girls are better in bed, they know what to do and guys who like them know this" and then go

" So ladies, lay off the guys and go after those twiggy model looking bitches"< do you not see the BS in this shit?

Your whole fucking rant is one big shaming. And sexist -- women gossip about other women? It's women who buy tabloids? Have you ever heard of GQ? Details? GTFO with your nonsense and body labeling.

signed,

Not so skinny, kinda average girl (woman)

How do you know

Nov 9, 2015 at 12:11pm

bigger girls are better in bed? Have you ever slept with an average or smaller size girl? I think the more limber and active, the better.

sorry but...

Nov 9, 2015 at 8:21pm

You're basically saying the only thing women are good for is sex.
The reason why bigger women shouldn't be shamed is because they're better in bed than thinner women and therefore can get any man they want? I bet you think that's a compliment, don't you? Thank you for your casual misogyny and you can stick it.
Maybe women (all women) want a partner who values them as an equal not a pleasure object meant solely for their sexual gratification.
Not only is that a terrible, shallow thing to say; it's an archaic, chauvinist way of thinking.
I am a person regardless of my gender, physical appearance, and sexual performance.

Individual taste

Nov 9, 2015 at 9:02pm

accounts for what people find attractive. Big girls can't get the same guys that slender and fit ones do and vice versa because different guys prefer different types. A really athletic guy who likes to start Sunday morning off with a long distance run followed by a green salad is probably more attracted to someone who does the same. Other guys prefer more to hold on to, snuggle in to watch a movie with nachos and pizza. I find your post quite offensive to people who aren't built like you. "Bigger girls are better in bed" is a ridiculous statement - this is a subjective opinion that will not be made fact no matter how many times you try to repeat it.

@Individual taste

Nov 9, 2015 at 10:01pm

You are spot on. I can never understand why the people who constantly argue about body image and which body type is "better" never seem to grasp that physical attraction is subjective, and different people find different things attractive. Overall, it's a pointless argument to get involved in.

Whether it's females putting other females down for their body type, or guys like this joker who claim that only certain girls are good in bed etc., I'm amazed at how some people can only see black and white, and refuse to account for anything in between.

As a female, I prefer skinny guys, but I know many other girls who prefer a bigger, more beefy guy, which I personally don't find attractive. Do I handle this by yelling at them that only skinny guys are attractive, and how dare they like any other type of guy than I do? No, because I'm an adult who accepts that they simply have different tastes than me. I don't see why this is such a hard concept to grasp.