I'm in the zone!!

I thought being stuck in the friend zone was going to suckkkkkkk but it has been the best time of my life. Whenever we go out she picks the place and I show up, we party, have fun, laugh and dance. Here is the catch. Women seem to be incredibly attracted to me now and since I have a female friend with me flirting is off the hook, almost like being with a woman makes me a better man in their eyes. Sure, I'll accept that. She is interested in another guy anyway so I'm not here for the rebound, I'm just going to soak this up for a while and enjoy the time well spent and the attention of course. Silly me for going out with men to meet women. I should have known that was kryptonite.. Who knew the friend zone was the best zone.

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could be

Dec 5, 2015 at 1:27pm

they assume you are gay though. seriously.

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here's the secret...

Dec 5, 2015 at 1:45pm

Women who see you out being friends with another woman + respecting her as a friend... well, they see a sexy, sexy man.

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Awesome you are...

Dec 5, 2015 at 3:35pm

...so report back often. Could be a movie here.

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The reason why men who are cool with being "just" friends

Dec 5, 2015 at 9:50pm

is that (1) It shows that you can be "just friends" with a woman, so less likely to cheat than a guy who thinks "guys for friends, girls for fucking", and (2) If a relationship is built and based on friendship, it's going to be stronger and more fun than one where you're just lovers.

But "could be" could be right - they might think you're gay.

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Double Standard

Dec 5, 2015 at 11:17pm

I am a female with mostly male friends
My dates can't handle it that I have male friends

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@Double

Dec 6, 2015 at 1:11am

where's the double standard? I'm male with no female friends, because my dates can't handle it if I have female friends.

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Op

Dec 6, 2015 at 10:36am

Thanks.

I have had a few women actually say to me "too bad you're gay" when I have been out at clubs because I was standing with another man so you may be onto something there. They didn't actually talk to me just blurted it out in a drunken rant.

I see the value of assuming that a man can be friends with a woman when seen together in public but it's only an assumption unless you know whats up. I'm sure women can figure that out though with a few looks though, men not so sure.

Honestly I am beside myself with joy that I actually met a woman who seems very into me on first introduction. Eye contact and a solid handshake that says assertive is all it took, she invited me back to her place of work (pub) very enthusiastically, not the typical
I need more business = tips talk. I know the difference.

Thanks friend.

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@@ Double

Dec 6, 2015 at 12:21pm

As I've been told that all men secretly imagine having sex with their female friends, they wonder what it would be like

It's the way the male brain works as how it was explained to me by men

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vini

Dec 6, 2015 at 1:16pm

@@Double: that is definitely not true.

as for what the OP describes, sometimes when i hang out with my best friend of the opposite sex people assume we're together so it can have that effect as well.

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