maybe he actually wanted to watch old episodes of x-files with you? i know i would.

We used to do nice things for you and treat you with respect but your sister just used us for free dinners, drinks and whatever we thought you would like and simply threw us out with the bathwater.

Yes we may have been a bit gullible doing said nice things but at least we tried.

So lets chill by watching net flix is usually a door to lets talk more and get to know you.

Us "good guys", all 19 of us, are all conveniently located in the friend zone.

It's the dating apocalypse don't ya know?
What's happened with this dumbphone dating app technology is that the dating pool has been increased a billion percent (especially for good looking dudes). Back in the day a guy would have one, two, maybe three girls he knew of he'd fancy dating. There's be girls from his hood (some he went to school with, a few who went to other schools in his area) and the random girls he possibly met in clubs or through work. He'd ask for your number, call you, have cool conversations, ask you out on a date, and maybe on another. Maybe he'd be going through the same patient play with another girl or two.
Then, just maybe one of the girls would 'give it up' easy and he'd be like 'okay, well, let's forget her and work on the other two' and off he went painstakingly trying to get what he wanted...which back then...was a girlfriend.
Now here's where I'm going to get thumbs down action cause I dare to say that you ladies are helping to create these sex crazed playas cause now y'all are out there behaving like penis-brained men yourselves (which is fine, do whatever you want with your life) If a guy can get laid by sending a few texts and emojis, then naturally he'll just figure every girl he dates is up for it. Why would he care about getting to know someone much less working towards building a loving relationship? Dating is equal to fucking. I used to think of dating as courtship...hahaha what an outdated fart I am!
There's no risk involved anymore, no sense of 'if she says no I'm gonna feel really stupid'. Nah, they just go for the shag cause there's 10 more girls on their phone who've shown interest. If he doesn't score with you he doesn't feel rejected, he just does the "whatever" and moves on down the dating app line up to the next prospect.
Best of luck finding yourself a good guy. In my experience, the good females have always been taken. Just the way it is.

you could flat out state " I am not interested in sex right now or for a while" who cares if it's embarrassing and rude. most dudes are embarrassing and rude

Typing properly and maybe conversing a little better? You really don't sound interesting at all. I don't blame him.

And i'm not looking. 6'4 and i work DT, there's women who "expect" me to talk to them but i have no desire too. Good luck out in "single" world...

I do agree with you. Some girls make it too easy. Maybe that is the reason why guys don't make the effort into getting to know someone.

Not all the guys/girls are taken... some are just simply done with trying.

Listening to young people is excruciating. You guys are ruined!

I guess I'm older than I thought. Are Netflix and chill now code words for "let's fuck"? If not then I'm at a complete loss as to what the problem is. The poor guy just wanted to relax in front of the TV with you OP... Where's my prune juice?

I think they are out there. Here is the catch though. You need to get them before they become bitter and have been screwed over by another woman. One a guy has been really hurt one or twice he get pretty bitter and just goes after sex. The decent looking ones are the worse i would guess for this.

When i meet my guy i realized he was a bit young but at the age where i was really surprised he had not been really messed over yet. The reason was he has always been in long term relationships. hence no time to be in the stupid dating scene. Another thing. Find a uy with hobbies. if a dude doesn't have things or interests do he will just look for sex.