He shouldn't be sharing everything with you, neither should you.

good luck op. it'll f*cking hurt but you know what to do.

I bet my last dollar that you wouldn't be into him if he was single.

That ring makes men so much more attractive doesn't it? That ring of Saturn that holds your essence and makes you stare into the abyss of denial.

Millions of people in this city, yet you have to choose a married one. What did his wife ever do to you?

What's the problem? Have her join in if it makes you feel better!

Get out, before you find out how low life can take you.

What goes around comes around and I can't wait til you get yours. Get ready for that heart to be shattered..Connection? No honey, that's just sex.

Your story resonates with mine. However, I've come to terms with the fact that at the end of the day I don't want to be in a "half-*ss" relationship. He will ALWAYS go back to her. And, do consider this, if he's cheated on his wife with you, who's to say he won't do the same to you? My connection is on a spiritual plane, but, that doesn't change the reality on the ground. Our actions, not words, are a tell-all, that includes your married "beau?". Honor yourself first my friend. Treat yourself like a sacred object. When you do that, the "right" person without baggage will worship you ;)

Wow, a lot of you are quick to judge.

@karma, don't call me "honey." It's really condescending and if you must know, we have never had sex. So if you don't consider endless conversations about anything and everything a meaningful connection, then that's you.

I didn't know he was married when I met him. I don't hope that he'll leave her doe me because this whole thing has shown me that I'll never be able to completely trust him. I'm just torn because I don't want to give up our friendship either, but it feels like we shouldn't be this close.

Try not to delude yourself so much.