Too smart for me

I broke off a relationship with a woman because she frightened me. She was incredibly intelligent, multilingual, and from a far better academic background than myself. I felt like a boy toy, which is strange because typically women like me for my intelligence. I worried she would get bored of me the way I get bored of the other women I date.

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Feb 8, 2016 at 4:12pm

A woman posting again.

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So essentially.....

Feb 8, 2016 at 4:38pm

You only want someone when you THINK you don't actually deserve them?

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well that was dumb

Feb 8, 2016 at 5:29pm

But nobody likes have their shine dimmed... so she's better off.

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Yer

Feb 8, 2016 at 6:03pm

An insecure pussy

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geeknomad

Feb 8, 2016 at 6:10pm

I'm sure you did what's right for you... but what a crying shame.

My sympathies to the lady. She clearly deserves that and much more.

Would actually send her flowers if I could (no reciprocity expected, just SO worth doing). Too sad.

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right

Feb 8, 2016 at 7:38pm

i once had a guy tell me he would never be attracted to someone like me, because i was too smart.

then later on he kissed me.

great kiss, but i'll never date someone with insecurities like that at their core.

You should address your insecurities. Being with someone who is (potentially) more intelligent than you could be a wonderful experience. Imagine being challenged. I'm sure you bring lots of other things to the table, and you're clearly still intelligent enough...

anyway. my point is it seems more about insecurity than intelligence.

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Goodguy

Feb 8, 2016 at 8:41pm

Aaagh...OP you can't be serious.
IMO, there would be nothing better than a relationship with an intelligent woman. In fact it's the most important factor for me. I would imagine great times, learning new things and being inspired to seek out things I had never thought to focus on. Watching Jeopardy together would be great too...and, trivia nights at the pub - we'd be unstoppable!
Well, maybe I should offer the OP thanks. Apparently there's now a highly intelligent woman on the market.

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Ironic karma

Feb 8, 2016 at 9:16pm

sure is a female dog

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intelligence has little

Feb 9, 2016 at 1:24am

To do with formal education.

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oh ya well your future debates look sucky and moot

Feb 9, 2016 at 8:41am

your supposed to be impressed with the person your seeing and think highly of them. not "oh they're a little dumb" but "oh they're quite smart".

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