We are not men

posted February 6th, 2016 at 4:24 PM

Being with you was like being in a cult as long as we agreed on everything, liked the same things, and dressed the same way, has the same moral on every area right down to food or politics. It was fun trying to fulfill all that was asked for a while, but as soon as the cracks in the facade started to show a real person underneath, it imploded. I am free to be alone. I feel so zapped of all my genius. I think all you wanted was a plaything, an unrealistic version of a person to hang out with, and be on call for your every need and whim. Well I survived and thank you for the lesson but man stay away. I know my side of this and I will be looking deeply at that for a long time while I regain the several pints of blood I gave away over the years.

5 Comments

This is sort of symbolic

Feb 7, 2016 at 11:59am

of the difference between what men and women want.

Usually (yeah, yeah, "there are exceptions to every rule" now fuck off with that) men like competition and women like cooperation and this transfers over into what we seek in a relationship.
Men usually seek a woman who complements them - such as an introverted guy pairing up with an outgoing woman.
Women though seek relationships with people who are similar to themselves because they, usually, prefer cooperation and don't want to have to be in a relationships where they are constantly arguing with their partner over their differences -hence the pref for someone who's similar.
Fuck off with the "you just have to find a compromise" and "relationships take work". Sometimes there is no compromise -such as deciding whether to continue helping over-populate the world- and relationships only are hard work if you're stupid enough to get into a relationship where you aren't truly compatible and stay in it.
The best thing is to stay single until you meet someone who you are truly, amazingly compatible with -and the only way you will know for sure is if you know them for a long time. Too many people jump into relationships quickly because they are lonely.

oh well

Feb 7, 2016 at 2:18pm

maybe next lifetime

rotten person

Feb 7, 2016 at 8:42pm

good riddence to them

op

Feb 8, 2016 at 7:36am

@This is sort of symbolic
This particular situation is not just singular to one gender or relationship type. The common denominator is me. Taking time outside of all relationships to develop and be a person I want to be with. The original post written sounds like blame of the other person, but its not, its sort of a caricature of codependency.