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I am only 24 years old, yet I have actually already chosen my last tie. It’s the one that I will wear on my funeral a few months from now. It may not match my suit, but I think it’s perfect for the occasion. The cancer diagnosis came too late to give me at least a tenuous hope for a long life, but I realized that the most important thing about death is to ensure that you leave this world a little better than it was before you existed with your contributions . The way I’ve lived my life so far, my existence or more precisely the loss of it, will not matter because I have lived without doing anything impactful. Before, there were so many things that occupied my mind. When I learned how much time I had left, however, it became clear which things are really important. So, I am writing to you for a selfish reason. I want to give meaning to my life by sharing with you what I have realized: Don’t waste your time on work that you don’t enjoy. It is obvious that you cannot succeed in something that you don’t like. Patience, passion, and dedication come easily only when you love what you do. It’s stupid to be afraid of others’ opinions. Fear weakens and paralyzes you. If you let it, it can grow worse and worse every day until there is nothing left of you, but a shell of yourself. Listen to your inner voice and go with it. Some people may call you crazy, but some may even think you‘re a legend. Take control of your life Take full responsibility for the things that happen to you. Limit bad habits and try to lead a healthier life. Find a sport that makes you happy. Most of all, don’t procrastinate. Let your life be shaped by decisions you made, not by the ones you didn’t. Appreciate the people around you Your friends and relatives will always be an infinite source of strength and love. That is why you shouldn’t take them for granted. It is difficult for me to fully express my feelings about the importance of these simple realizations, but I hope that you will listen to someone who has experienced how valuable time is. I'm not upset because I understand that the last days of my life have become meaningful. I only regret that I will not be able to see a lot of cool stuff that should happen soon like the creation of AI, or Elon Musk’s next awesome project. I also hope that the war in Syria and Ukraine will end soon. We care so much about the health and integrity of our body that until death, we don’t notice that the body is nothing more than a box - a parcel for delivering our personality, thoughts, beliefs and intentions to this world. If there is nothing in this box that can change the world, then it doesn’t matter if it disappears. I believe that we all have potential, but it also takes a lot of courage to realize it. You can float through a life created by circumstances, missing day after day, hour after hour. Or, you can fight for what you believe in and write the great story of your life. I hope you will make the right choice. Leave a mark in this world. Have a meaningful life, whatever definition it has for you. Go towards it. The place we are leaving is a beautiful playground, where everything is possible. Yet, we are not here forever. Our life is a short spark in this beautiful little planet that flies with incredible speed to the endless darkness of the unknown universe. So, enjoy your time here with passion. Make it interesting. Make it count! Thank you!

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Mar 14, 2016 at 9:23pm

This is a beautiful post. Thank you for the inspiration! I promise that you have made your impact because I am taking your advice seriously.
Big hug to you. xo

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Great Post

Mar 14, 2016 at 9:34pm

That's great, tho you should also understand that a lot of it is because you won't have to live longer than X months, so you can afford to not think about certain sorts of consequences, calculus, etc.

Also, I am sure you are doing everything possible, but I have seen a number of people online be told to "go home, get ready to die," who started taking 1g+ of full-plant cannabis extract per day, who have recovered. Maybe they're lying or confused, who knows. Something to think about, tho. Chemo's big business, if even 5% of cancers could be treated without the current irradiate/cut/chemo model, it would mean millions in lost profits...

Google "full extract cannabis oil," and don't trust any of the charlatans purporting to sell stuff...

Anyway, thanks for your post, very thoughtful, well-written, much better than a lot of the dreck on the internet about cats.

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i hope

Mar 14, 2016 at 10:25pm

I can be as positive and inspirational as you in my final days. If I knew you in person, i would take a day out of my schedule just to give you an amazing time, in a strictly platonic sense, wether you be male or female.

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TCG

Mar 14, 2016 at 11:25pm

Thank you for writing this. May love and peace be with you.

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ickyster

Mar 15, 2016 at 12:13am

Wow thanks for the advice and the kind words. you will not go unnoticed this post is very touching we might not know your name or who you are but what you posted is very touching it will always remind me of you! God bless your soul or whatever your beliefs are. You will be in my prayers like rest of the world! Its never to late to make the impact you want to remember that. once again THAnk you for the courage and inspiring words!!

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Save me a spot

Mar 15, 2016 at 12:40am

We are all getting there. All I can give you are my thoughts. Drop us a line. Let us know what it's like to be rid of the box.

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not even half thru and

Mar 15, 2016 at 7:36am

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Tears are flowing

Mar 15, 2016 at 9:05am

Thank you so much for writing.

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Dear Stranger...

Mar 15, 2016 at 6:42pm

To say that I'm sorry for what you're going through would be a huge understatement. Here I am, reading the words of a total stranger with tears rolling down my face. You have a beautiful soul, and your words have really affected me, and probably many others who have read them as well. Although I have no idea of the type of life you've lived to this point, please know that you truly ARE going to leave this world a better place.
You've impacted and inspired me by sharing your thoughts and experience. You may not get to see tangible evidence of it, but it's there. Who knows far your words will reach, or how they might change someone else! I hope knowing this will give you a bit of comfort. You are forever in my heart, dear stranger.

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