Broken

My insides are shattered and broken. I have not told anyone that you have left. I am shocked and barely able to function. We were just at the Doctors ten days ago and found out there are more complications to have children. I helped you when you lost everything. No discussion or comfort................you just stopped answering the phone when I asked what is going on........you took and bunch of your stuff and said we should break up. I tried reaching out and said everything I needed to. You have not come back.

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May 23, 2016 at 10:49pm

you will get through this

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APerson

May 24, 2016 at 1:48am

That's terrible and I'm so sorry you're experiencing this. When people leave someone who they claim to love for reasons like this, it fills me with a sort of disgust that I struggle to describe. Loyalty dying at the hands of mistreatment, betrayal or deception is understandable, but when it dies from reasons that are not the other's fault, it is beyond messed up. Doesn't feel like love to me. I'm not convinced it is.

On one hand, you are seeing this person's true colours, and man, are those colours ugly. For that reason, you're probably better off without them. I really hope this person finds some sort of decency within whatever heart they have, and that they at least have a discussion with you. You can't make them stay, but you deserve that last conversation and explanation. If they are simply confused and were unsure how to handle it, then they need to communicate plus realize what a horrible method this is. I hope you get an apology for these cold actions. Also don't feel like any of this is your fault.

Try talking to someone about your feelings, writing them out could help too. It's going to be hard, but you will heal from this. Believe you are strong and deserve better. I hope you find someone in your future who will treat you with RESPECT, KINDNESS and LOVE. My heart goes out to you.

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Mitch

May 24, 2016 at 10:23am

The greatest revenge is living well...if they don't care neither should you.

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May 24, 2016 at 9:03pm

They did not know what to say.. I am so sorry you are going through this! Pamper yourself with a warm blanket, a hot chocolate and a lot of Netflix. You will get through this, but nurse yourself back to healing. It's what I do during a bout of anxiety...

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Platitudes don't help Mitch

May 25, 2016 at 4:10am

Sorry but telling a person who's just been dumped and is feeling broken hearted that they should just not care isn't helpful. I know it's the popular attitude these days but it's not very realistic, is it? Yes, they'll get thru it but the pain is very, very real and of course if you really love someone you can't simply stop caring just because they did. Wouldn't that be nice if we could, but the reality is that it can take a long time to heal from a broken heart and we need to offer the broken person kindness and not flippancy.

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