A good employee

Is something that I've always prided myself on. I rarely get sick (I called off once 2 years ago), always show up on time, no task is too much for me, I don't really need a break, and can work long hours. Routinely I have people telling me that they're happy when working with me since I take care of everything. I always have an answer (when at work "I don't know" is removed from my vocabulary) and will try to help anyone and everyone. Over the years I've been able to move up in different companies and am now a manager in one. My confession is that for all the good I do I can't stand half the staff because they have gotten used to this and now call on me for EVERYTHING. In fact they won't even try to solve a problem themselves, just ask me. I guess that I should be happy to feel needed but my back is going to give out if I have to keep on carrying people like this.

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Yep

May 30, 2016 at 8:56am

You give an inch, they take a mile. I think it's great that you are so willing to help your co-workers but it's also ok to establish and respect your own personal boundaries in regards to helping others or you will burn yourself out. A good manager shouldn't be doing EVERYTHING as it makes me think that your staff are taking advantage of you and they are doing NOTHING. Just a thought.

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Stand up straight...

May 30, 2016 at 9:51am

Look them in the eye and tell them they have to work through it themselves. Your job is to direct them, not coddle them. If YOUR managers catch you doing your staffs jobs because you won't direct them properly (read as mentor them if that helps), you won't be manager for long.

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"I don't know" is perfectly valid

May 30, 2016 at 10:45am

If one doesn't know something, it's much better to say so than to BS an answer.

Not that you do that - no accusations being made - just putting it out there that you can say, "I don't know - look it up and get back to me" instead of doing the looking up yourself.

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Welcome to the...

May 30, 2016 at 11:11am

...workforce you created. You need to develop your talent rather than them becoming too reliant on you. Share the power and create an environment that your key people are accountable to you - and with one another. Walk the talk and they'll develop. Then put your feet up (joking!).

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Same Boat

May 30, 2016 at 12:07pm

I'm the same. I now manage the staff I used to work amongst and I have to try really hard to remember when to roll my sleeves up and help and when I have to manage who is helping. It's hard. But you can't get your work done if you're doing everyone else's. Put up some boundaries and learn to say no. You won't be sorry. Good luck!

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That Isn't Managing

May 30, 2016 at 12:33pm

You are not managing when you do their work. It is demoralizing that you do it rather than help them learn and develop skills. You are sending a signal that you don't trust them. Why even have employees if you don't trust them. Start over, set expectations and hold yourself accountable for ensuring employees do what they are paid to do and that you provide leadership. In reality, the person who isn't doing the job is the 'manager' who does the work of the employees instead of the job the manager is intended to do. Get thee to some training before you get fired.

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A frame of mind

May 30, 2016 at 11:56pm

Sounds like there are numerous things you will need to change. There is some good advice above. If you find people bring their problems to you to solve. Tell your employees that they should come to you with solutions not problems. If they identify something you can then support them in sloving it.

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Huh?

May 31, 2016 at 6:42pm

At least you have a job. Stop complaining!

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Lead vs Manage

Jun 1, 2016 at 11:23pm

A great tool my manager once shared with me was the "1 minute manager" book. I think you'll find it super helpful. It really spells out in easy terms how you can change your situation around :)

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