Life is easy

I find so many people posting confessions about how Schitty their life is. Can't find a job. Can't find a man to sire my children and pay my asz through life. Hate my co-works. Can buy a house in Vancouver that I feel I deserve. Woman in Vancouver are so mean etc. Honestly it's all total BS. I'm in my mid 30s and have to say life is easy. I have everything I want and lesnred the most important thing in life: how to be content and happy in the moment. While I date (easy just grow a pair) I don't need someone else to make me happy. I got the job I wanted and enjoy because I worked hard and most importantly FOCUSED. Also I never fell into the trap (usually one sex more then the other) of thinking one day someone else will pay my way through life. I don't have kids (thank god), and fill each day with things that make me happy. Seriously, life is perfect and I just shake my head at those that bitch and ultimately find a way to blame anything else but them selves for their current state in life. Basically only those with health issues that were unavoidable have a right to complain. The rest of you need to ask "What am I doing to better my life and achieve the goals I want?". Focus on the fact that question doesn't involve anyone else but your damn self. I'm looking forward to flying first class to Europe this month to enjoy a month long trip!

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Agree

May 3, 2016 at 12:10pm

I agree whole heartedly with this confession. SOMEONE had to say it.

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Snackster

May 3, 2016 at 12:58pm

I'm in my mid-thirties, single, and work full time. Why is it that I can't afford anything other than a tiny room to rent in a building that is falling apart, and you have no problem? Pick one:

1-You don't actually live in Vancouver and therefore are clueless about the housing crisis.
2-Your parents give you money. (and/or you live in their basement)
3-You are a drug dealer or other criminal (obviously you don't have a real job, otherwise you would know how to spell better).
4-It's a slow day under the bridge.

My money's on number 4......

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Nothing Like...

May 3, 2016 at 1:42pm

A huge ego

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Anonymous

May 3, 2016 at 3:19pm

There is such a lot of under the surface hate in your confession that I can't really believe you are that happy. In my opinion happy people are compassionate and understanding about the misfortunes of others not gloating assholes. It's a shame about your personality shining through in this post because the sentiment of enjoying the moment and finding your way to happiness is a good one. You just ruined it for me by...well by just being you.

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barren

May 3, 2016 at 3:41pm

10-15 years from now when you are counting your money you may be thinking. " I wish I had kids when I had the chance-all my friends seem to be happy.They seem so content with soiled diapers and listening to the laughter of their kids."

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something tells me

May 3, 2016 at 3:50pm

You don't like people, in general

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Emperor has no class. I mean clothes.fuck it both.

May 3, 2016 at 5:13pm

You can almost hear karma in the background undoing some bolts on an engine mount under a wing...

right by the first class window.

Just because you can afford to fly first class does not mean you have any either...

C'mon I know i'm not the only one thinking this....

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Congratulations, OP!

May 3, 2016 at 5:16pm

You just won the 2016 Horse's Ass award! You also sound like the sort of person I'd need to watch my drink around...no matter if you are hetero, gay, bi, or anything in-between. You are dangerous.

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to each their own

May 3, 2016 at 6:17pm

Just because you are happy meaninglessly dating women, and traveling the world, doesn't mean that's the beat all end all solution to the world.

My idea of a good weekend is drinkin somewhere like a bar or a beach on Friday, drinkin and watchin hockey on Saturday, drinkin and watchin football on Sunday. I don't expect everyone to be ab alcoholic or its their own fault that they're bored or miserable.

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OP here

May 3, 2016 at 7:08pm

Snackster I'll answer your question. I refered to it in my original post summed up in one word: focus. I bought my first condo at the age of 23. While others were going to bars, racking up cc dept to pay for things they can't afford (or worse buy stuff for others) I paid into a mortgage. I bought and sold twice since and ended up in a nice townhouse. I have a large deck, small piece of land and its in a great area of the city. I make 200k + a year, love my job and while I live a great lifestyle I stay focused on the bigger picture. In don't rely on selling drugs and never took a dime from my parents.

I'm sorry this makes you angry to the point you feel better by pointing at my spelling. English isn't my first language. I'm just curious how many languages do you speak? Could you reply to this post as best you can in your second lanaguage as a reference point? :)

To answer you first question you live in a tinny room, and are not content (sounds like) with your life because you failed to focus in life. You settled for mediocrity and got in the long line of entitled angry people who spend more time complaining then answering the question I put in my original post...."what mad I doing to better my life and achieve the goals I want" Most people seem to answer that question by saying "I'm asking for others to pay my ass through life"

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