Loop
posted May 31st, 2016 at 7:13 PM
6 years later and I still love this person. Everyone would say to just get over it. Well, I can't seem to.
posted May 31st, 2016 at 7:13 PM
Dan offers some advice on where she might find it.
You were sitting by yourself & you ordered a few Curry Fish Balls and a few deep-fried Spring...
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May 31, 2016 at 8:43pm
If they were a big part of your life-and even if they weren't-we don't just stop loving people. If you really loved someone, you will always love them. And that's ok. Moving on doesn't mean turning your feelings off like you turn faucets off. You just accept that they aren't in your life for whatever reason. Make peace with the fact. You sound like you have great capacity for love. I wish you the best.
uknow
May 31, 2016 at 9:24pm
I hear you. with both ears
Life
Jun 1, 2016 at 8:48pm
Get over it ..........not a kind statement. Time does not heal wounds. Love is always in your heart. It will get easier. Sending you a hug. It is never wrong to love. Just try if you are able to stay open to a new love. In my experience...............that is what helps heal.
Me too
Jun 1, 2016 at 10:24pm
I hear you too .....loud and clear .........ya people say just get over it .......not happening ...
BD
Jun 1, 2016 at 10:34pm
I hear you with my <3 and feel you with a big hug"
weird earth
Jun 2, 2016 at 5:11pm
No, time does heal, I think its the new patterns, but especially the new perspectives we gain with time. such as : this wasn't so much a missed opportunity as a much as a lesson for both of us.
When I think of the person I was heart broken over, I feel fondly for them and see us as friends from afar but I don't have any romantic inclinations for them now and am happy they're happy with someone (because I helped build them up to be that great, yeah mofo). You may continue to love the person, or you should start to hate them, but if you can evolve your perspective of your relationship from a romantic one to something else, that would probably be nice. Although, I don't know how to do that.
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