What's wrong about consensual sex? If it doesn't work for you, don't do it, but otherwise, what's the problem?

Also, how likely is pregnancy, really? I mean, it's not like we don't have multiple forms of reliable birth control available, and even the option of combining them.

What they're doing is wrong? Close their legs? They're devaluing themselves? A woman having casual sex isn't "wrong", you asshole, it's their bodoes and lives, and as for these pages upon pages of women torn up about being used in one night stands, where? There has been one woman who wrote that she unhealthily obsesses after every encounter, sexual or otherwise, but she never blamed the men once.
You sound like an antiquated mysoginistic douchebag who carries unhealthy contempt for a woman actually doing what is natural with her own body. Didn't hear any advice for the guys having one night stands, why's that? I've seen equal amounts of heartache confessions from men and women, none about one night stands though.
Me thinks you harbour major judgement and disdain for these women being allowed to control their own sexuality.
Well, get over it and mind your own fucking business.

I think you probably mean well, but actually not every woman who has a one night stand is broken up about it. In fact, sometimes women just want to get laid just like guys do. What I find so tedious is the men who claim to not want any strings but then assume that if you have sex with them you're their girlfriend! Isn't it about time that people accept that women are sexual too and that the old stereotypes don't always apply?

Op never said no , or don't. He stated that the women WHO POST CONFESSIONS about their inability to have sex without guilt then complain about it HERE is the issue...

Not once did he say ALL women should do this and that.

Op is right and women still forget to fully read things and make up bs to vilify men Just like caller number 1, 2 and 3.

READ IT then comment not the other way around...

My ex does the same thing . " hey did you read that" "yes fucking assholes and who is that bitch?" uhh " its the menu sweety and the girl is the waitress"

Love the modern age, What a joke.

A small subset of people who are prob. 'sexual sociopaths' in that they can have no strings attached sex without developing any bonds at all are developed a culture where people who think sex is about relationships and bonding are "immature." But they're in the minority.

In fact, I would say that this applies more to men than to women. Men tend to associate love with genital fondling, but if they get their genitals fondled too much by too many women, they might stop believing in love!

I agree that there is nothing wrong with consensual sex for either gender and don't think women should have to feel ashamed for wanting to hook as was stated in defence from some of the above posters. However, those stating that in defence didn't really read the original post properly imo because the op was specifically talking about women with low self esteem who hook up too soon who are looking for emotional attachment. I feel like discussions like these can sort of act as a kind of rorschach test. You know, the psychological test with the ink blots that form shapes where people interpret them differently based on there own perspective. I think there are some people (as demonstrated above) who carry a perspective that men are misogynistic by nature. Therefore, when reading the above post all they take out of it is "close their goddamn legs " and "devaluing yourself" and feel like its personally attacking them when to me it just sounding like he was referring to the ladies who actually feel like they give in to sex to be accepted. What ink blot do you see? A misogynistic asshole who hates women and has to spout it out on the internet? Or a person who's just doesn't like seeing some women damage themselves through romantic entanglements?

I posted the first comment. I'm a guy. But sure, women can't read and that's the problem here... Right...

Because you wrote "we" have multiple forms of birth control... not
"I" so your words are misleading and not direct like a mans usually are. A man would have said women have multiple forms which would set the record straight about your sexual orientation. You blurred the lines to get votes plain and simple.

I said those women didn't FULLY read it nor did YOU because your post missed the mark about what the op actually posted... it was not about consensual sex like you misread then attempted to sway the convo in your favour. The op wrote that it was about getting laid in one night stands then feeling bad about because the women who rant incesintly obviously did not set the rules before playing the game of adults, feelings happened then the shifting of blame on cue.

I can imagine you building a scale model, didn't read the instructions all the way through then get pissed because it's not right then blame the plastic...

You're a white knight not a man or a guy.

You are simplifying things which you cannot simplify like that.
There could be a myriad of reasons as to why a woman "gets herself" into those situations of feeling used by men. Telling them they ought to close their legs and go for the good guys really sounds like a dodo's advice.