Why not make that happen instead of bitching about it.?

When is the last time you planned anything yourself for your partner? It's not all one persons responsibility to ensure romance exists in a relationship. I don't want to judge by your post but the way you worded things makes me think you don't offer your partner much in terms of appreciation either.

Perhaps a mirror post but just starting to realize im in a one sided relationship where i do all the thoughtful date creating, hosting and gift giving, but to her credit she's paid for dinner a couple times. Pretty rough though.