Yet another post telling women what to do, not even disguised as a confession.

You write about a rude boy and that you see the resemblance to the dad yet you end with admonishing women as the determinants of this scenario. How about holding the father responsible for modeling rudeness? No need to make it more complicated.

It is still a parenting choice to allow them to act the other rude people in their lives

not sexist at all....

I'm sure you've learned that as an adult, name calling won't fix anything and is more or less a petty, inflammatory distraction.
Furthermore- do you actually care about the situation? or is this just another chance for a narrow minded person to bitch about something they probably dont understand?

Kids are are result of how you parent. Never there? put them in front of devises all the time? Give the processed food? so many reasons

I also agree with the OP.
@snackster Nobody is telling women what to do. The op is merely asking that her friend raise a respectable human being instead of being negligent to the situation. Kids are the product of their environment.