It's tough to admit that but if you do that move, know that when you move somewhere else and suddenly the attractiveness average is lower, you might just get a lot of attention. Especially if it's Asia and you're white.

Those "friends" of yours were not real friends. They were probably jealous of your great personality, or, they were depressed and you were an easy target for them to feel better. It's really sad how some human beings do that. It sounds like you haven't found anyone who's appreciated you as a person, and that's really sad. I personally prefer to judge others on their character because that's what I'd like people to do with me. Looks are superficial plus they change over time. No attraction to a hot body can beat the magnetizing pull of a good heart. At least for me. I can't be the only one, so I hope you find people who will love you for you. It's okay to feel ugly some days, just don't let it define how you feel overall. Pay no attention to those who pass you by. I know it's depressing to be alone, but you deserve better than someone who is so shallow that they only base things on looks. Many attractive people are ugly on the inside.

Friends my ass.

If it's women you want to attract, please try to get yourself into decent physical shape, and if you pursue activities where women tend to participate in... provided you're not 100% full of shit when you talk to them you will always stand a chance.

Women have always found me attractive for some reason, which often means little in that most of the time they ignore me like I'm a piece of trash on the street. Why? I have no idea. It just seems to be the way it is.

I know lots of guys who attract all kinds of females who aren't considered wonderful looking. Women over the age of 18 often don't worry about looks in a guy. In fact, women often are so incredibly reasonable and cool you wonder where all of the angst comes from.

It basically comes down to a dynamic between: men and women(which has been going on forever, and the sad feminist/socialist world we inhabit today which propels girls to the top of the class while denigrating the boys, in the NWO plan to enslave everyone). I mean, what more perfect way to destroy a society than tearing everything down but without any coherent plan to replace the destruction?

never turned into a swan. I'm gay and don't have gay guys hitting on me, women neither. It's gotten to the point that I don't think I'd even know if some one was hitting on me, it's just never happened. As far as I'm aware, I've gone 36 years with out experiencing mutual attraction or anyone being attracted to me even if I wasn't attracted to them. I go from club to club, bar to bar, meetup group to meetup group, sports league to sports league totally invisible.

To the OP, it also seems to me that people in Vancouver are getting more attractive by the year. Very strange indeed!

@well You have a good point, in Asia if you're white you ate King (if your a man) if you are a woman you are a slut. I know my ex-father was an old fat ugly person with a horrible personality. He went to live in asia and from what i've heard he is king. ugh

I'm sorry that you believed those kids who were cruel to you. They were wrong.

You are beautiful.

You will find love.

You are worthy of it.

Attitude is everything, remember, you teach people how to treat you, accept nothing but love and acceptance from those who you surround yourself with.

what happened in high school is not relevant to your adult life. I was called ugly ass cow in high school, so was my friend. some people compared me to a dog. even some of my crappy friends talked smack behind my back and called me ugly. I'm not ugly, my friend isn't ugly. some of the most beautiful people got terrible surgeries, some of the ones who were not considered attractive became models. I don't know what you look like, but ugly is a feeling more so than a look. plus our social standards of what is beautiful changes hugely about every 3 years.

I also had a person at school in Grade 9 tell me to my face I was ugly (he: male / me: female). After graduation, he got killed in a car accident because he was high and behind the wheel. I never felt any remorse for his early death, because he was a shitty person.

Honestly, I think one of the most attractive things in a person is when they look you in the eye. This is regardless of their appearance. When someone is fully present and listening and giving you their full attention, I feel connected to that person and I don't judge them.