Pof Experience

I have been on Pof for almost a year. I think the people on Pof really like to play games. Whether they send you messages for awhile and then they stop for no reason. They will meet you and most will expect you to sleep with them on the first date. If you don't you try to call them after the date they won't answer you.

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Weird...

Oct 20, 2016 at 1:05pm

I only ever went out with two girls from POF. Both of them had, like, facial scars, or unfortunate asymmetry that they'd clearly hidden in their pics. I mean, it wasn't the sort of thing you could hide IRL, so it made me wonder why they bothered at all.

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Oct 20, 2016 at 2:37pm

In my experience, POF is full of weirdos that lie about their height, names, age.. pretty much anything. They just wanna get you liquored up and get you in the sack, like you said. The honest people on there like (I'm assuming) you and me are just hopeless romantics. Our hopes are constantly being dashed and we end up feeling worthless in the end . My advice.. stay off of dating sites. Find someone in the real world that can't hide behind a screen and type up a character.

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Chances are

Oct 20, 2016 at 4:28pm

You're going after the wrong guys. I'm willing to bet owning a car, education or finances have a part to play in your search, and fact is the guys that have all that stuff, and use Pof, are only there to use what they got to get hook ups. The ones that have that stuff an are serious about a relationship are mostly already in relationships, and if they arnt, they won't be using Pof because they know they have what women want and don't need to use dating sites.

If this stuff is what's important to you, you'd be wise to abandon POF. If you're not getting guys approach you IRL, try approaching them.

That, or you're likely attracted to the guys with the bad boy image, and if you haven't learned by the time your finished high school how that stuff usually works out, then you should probably figure it out soon.

What Iv learned from POF in my experiences, is there are very few people of either gender on that site who are single, and sain, and honest. 90% of the people on there, all you can hope for is two out of three.

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It's a validation

Oct 20, 2016 at 5:37pm

and ego boost for most or all women.
They complain about too many messages,yet around the water cooler on monday they boast about how many guys messaged them and how they never even read any.
But on friday- in prep for the weekend- they'll moan how there's no men in Vancouver.
I've worked in 3 office jobs with 90% women so I've heard it all.

In the time i was on pof (a month) I sent out 25 messages.
Well thought out,observational about their profile,polite etc.

Only TWO women even bothered to look at my profile.

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Well now....

Oct 21, 2016 at 7:09am

I found my girlfriend on POF, actually she is my fiancée now :). It was quite a bit of work to do so tho. I found out over the time I was on there that it was of no use at all to send messages back and forth too long. You have to find someone of interest and then go meet them some place, face to face. That is the only way to know if there is a chemistry between you. I never once had a woman come after me for sex on our first date.... I never went looking for that either. The women I met seemed sincere enough, except one that made it quite clear that she thought I was "professional " and was quite disappointed that I was only a tradesman. That was the only bad experience I had. At least I found out quickly because I did go meet her face to face.
Anyway I don't think you should give up. Go about it in an mature sincere manor, be open minded to who you may meet. Not all of the beautiful people in the world look like movie stars......

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Its funny cuz

Oct 21, 2016 at 8:34pm

i have mutual matches with girls on this site about once a week. But Im tired of putting in effort (even after a mutual match) and seeing no reward, so I dont even both messaging these girls anymore. I feel like if they really are serious, they'll follow it up with a message.

Females are just as bad as males for pof BS. Its just different stuff.

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