I am a white feminist

I am white. This is not something I chose for myself, but I am well aware of the unjust privilege this genetic factor has on my life. I am aware of this privilege because of the education I received from my family, through years of social studies and history classes, and from the things I experience and witness on a daily basis. Can I fully comprehend my privilege as a white person? Probably not. I have never experienced life as a person of colour, and there are no doubt subtle and not so subtle atrocities committed against racial minorities that I can't even fathom. But rest assured, I am, and have always been well aware of the privilege the colour of my skin has afforded me. I am also a woman. This is not something I chose for myself, but I am well aware of the unjust impact this genetic factor has on my life. I am aware of this impact because of the things I have personally experienced from a very young age, as well as what I witness on a daily basis. I am privileged (and just plain lucky) enough to have the bulk of the sexism and misogyny directed specifically at me done so in subtle, underhanded ways, but one does not have to be a racial minority to see the way women are treated in our society. Our culture is steeped in sexism, from the language we use to the people in power, the laws in place and the all-too-frequent miscarriages of justice. These are things that make me angry, and take very, very personally. As a white woman, I am in no way implying my struggle against the patriarchy is equivalent to that of a person of another race, however it is very real and after 30 years of living it, it is a part of me. I will continue to make my voice heard, I will continue to stand up, and I will continue to fight for women. But more importantly, despite the colour of my skin, when I fight for women's rights, I fight for the rights of all women, particularly those less privileged than myself. There have been many arguments made, more so recently, that "white feminists" are less valid than their more persecuted sisters of colour. This division of women is detrimental to the very foundation of feminism. To turn something as positive as people coming together to support women into a battle of race is so wrong it turns my stomach. Yes, white people absolutely need to understand privilege and what it means in the bigger picture, but perhaps this is not a conversation to have in anger on social media and comments sections. Yes, of course there will be uninformed, privileged white women jumping on the feminist train without fully understanding what they're fighting for. Humans are imperfect and there will always be sheep. But guess what? There is strength and opportunity in numbers. To make a point of publicly patronizing and speaking out against the "nice white ladies" marching this past weekend, and demand they recognize their privilege before they dare stand alongside us is shortsighted. To be constructive and make real progress, we must focus on coming together, educating one another calmly and practicing a little patience. We are so much stronger united than divided, and it would do us all some good to remember that.

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I identify as yo momma

Jan 23, 2017 at 12:31pm

The collectivist social justice movements are going to end the same way as the movie Reservoir Dogs. With all the grant money grubbing pitty party splinter groups pointing guns at each other's label obsessed faces and then KAPOW! Justice.

Meanwhile the rest of us who only identify as individuals will be snacking on popcorn rooting you guys on.

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well there you are

Jan 23, 2017 at 12:45pm

silencing minority voices because you are racist.

Joke!

Look, it's good to listen to criticism but you get to decide how much to absorb, how much to change your ways, and how much you should give back.

The victimocracy effect is purely by consent.

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sounds counter-productive

Jan 23, 2017 at 1:20pm

seems to me all this exclusion in special-interest groups is what takes the credibility away from their message. i would think that your presence would add some legitimacy to it all, but what do i know, i'm just a white guy.

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All is choice

Jan 23, 2017 at 1:32pm

You are forgetting essence chose for you to be white personality wise you may be rejecting your station in life but you did choose it .How to deal with it is also your choice but you have done this before. Get over yourself and accept what you have chosen

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Actual Feminist

Jan 23, 2017 at 1:56pm

Yet you continue to shove your white privilege in the face of the oppressed? Being a good ally mean shutting up if you're white and letting WOC talk, you're just perpetuating racism with this post. Start LISTENING.

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another idea

Jan 23, 2017 at 2:22pm

Although I recognize that some people benefit from white privilege, I have come to see that generalization as racist. You are right-people should come together for empowerment rather than diminish themselves. I have been very lucky to have a wide ranging multicultural life experiences but I have seen racism in all cultures.

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Smythe

Jan 23, 2017 at 2:23pm

That's a whole lot of words about you.

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Anonymous

Jan 23, 2017 at 4:13pm

Feminism has a long history of excluding or all too often outright hatred towards women of colour, trans women, disabled women, lesbian women, poor women, women who are sex workers... The list goes on. White people who aren't willing to do better are the ones creating the division, not those of us who have been excluded or even had feminists campaign against our rights.

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@Actual Feminist

Jan 23, 2017 at 10:18pm

EXACTLY. THANK YOU.

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This is ridiculous

Jan 23, 2017 at 10:34pm

You're practicing identity politics... the same type that leads to all the hate in the world.

Damn, you're all crazy.

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