Identity

posted January 16th, 2017 at 6:50 AM

I am not defined by my gender race or any other invisible dna or gene or genital or cultural conformity . Yes its disappointing to have so many assumptions stereotypes that only see the surface. I also do not really care if you dont see me the me who is inside that's your loss. I am not offended if you do not get my name or my preferred status of gendermeh. I do not belong to any group or political or academic ideology either, I do not relate to all the aggression around radical feminism or gender politics, I believe in respect and I just want to live free of all this crap but this world is so beyond stupid and superficial that rarely do we respect each other, so I have greatly lowered my expectations about meeting people who are willing to have adult respectful relationships, it seems people want their projections and do not want to be in any kind of reality that is mutually working together to heal this planet..

9 Comments

Are you an alien?

Jan 16, 2017 at 1:40pm

Or just a defector of Scientology?

Eeek!

Jan 16, 2017 at 1:40pm

Your grammar needs a LOT of work...

You sound pretty uptight.

Jan 16, 2017 at 2:32pm

Most people shy away from potential friends who look like they're going to be too high maintenance, too finely tuned.
Most of us look for people we can drop our guards and just relax with

Do something physical that will get you out of your head.

Anonymous

Jan 16, 2017 at 2:57pm

"I am not defined by my gender race or any other invisible dna or gene or genital or cultural conformity "

Ok so if some guy beats and robs you,will your description to police be "It was a non gender-specific person,not conforming to any height prejudices, nor belonging to any racial groups"?

"I also do not really care if you dont see me the me who is inside "
You clearly do care,as you posted this same stuff last week or so,and here you are again.

This Stuff

Jan 16, 2017 at 3:15pm

Gets as complicated as you want to make it.

I. Like. You. Anyway.

Jan 16, 2017 at 9:11pm

But it is hard to truly know someone mostly through text. Do you make sure you spend more time with people in person so that they can know the real you? Do you offer the respect that you seek? Do you give up when someone disappoints you or has complex beliefs that are different from your own?

Kindness returns kindness

Jan 16, 2017 at 9:15pm

Respect begets respect. Etc etc people can be jerks but if you treat people well you will eventually meet someone who also treats you well. Just takes time.

op

Jan 17, 2017 at 1:56pm

Thanks for your generous comments I will try to help others be accepted as you accepted me.

op

Jan 18, 2017 at 2:10am

@Alien - what do you mean I do not understand this question
@Eeek! -what specifically do you mean, we do not speak the same language
@uptight friends - why do you say this why do I have to be anything
@Anonymous - you are not anonymous. I am not the person you say maybe I should meet them they sound interesting
@stuff why is it complicated?
@ILikeu everybody is complex we reduce reality and people to a limited perception
@kindness I have not experienced this concept as you put it it I do not know what you mean is it an action or a statement
@op love