Sigh.

posted January 18th, 2017 at 7:36 PM

The person I'm in love with is so clearly obsessed with their ex after all this time. Look, I sometimes miss mine, too - but I'm not out there still trying to get their attention. I'm not doing things that I think they'd love, like 'Hey, look at me!' Especially because, well, I'm in a new relationship. Fuck. I feel like garbage. Like a fool. But I'm trying to be sympathetic and I don't want to hurt their feelings. Guess I'll just take some deep breaths, try not to think about it, and see if they drop this weird stuff. Fingers crossed.

2 Comments

Pineapple Man

Jan 20, 2017 at 1:20am

You say you don't want to hurt their feelings, but they don't seem to care much about your feelings. On top of that, this lover of yours is ignoring the fact that their ex is, well, AN EX, and in all likelihood doesn't want to hear from him/her. That's disrespectful and selfish, and like you said, obsessive. It's very unhealthy for them and is damaging your self esteem. You deserve someone who will focus their attention on YOU.
So you can either give them a wake-up call and tell them to come back to reality, or dump them. I'd go with the latter.

See these are

Sep 13, 2019 at 8:54am

The talks we should have had. I wanted to show you love on a new level. I just feel it in me, I waited patiently even as patients turned into insanity. I did my best to let your voice speak the first engaging words. I failed now love is all I have because it's never going to be another that's the love that found me. I tried selfishly to kill it because I was so scared of being where I'm at now.